During a recent talk with my SO other he expressed to me that I do not sexually excite all of his senses. That I focus on mainly the physical while forgetting that visual and vocal are also large aspects of getting his attention.

RP is relatively new to me. I love it but the hardest thing for me has been finding the new feminine version of myself. I started out losing weight and I feel significantly better about my over all appearance. The thing I am struggling with is having my attitude match the new me.

How did you lovely women soften your hardened shell? Is it possible. How did you learn to be more vocal when it feels so awkward at times?

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Sincerely, A struggling tomboy.