She calls me handsome, brings me food, texts me from the time she get's up to the time she goes to bed, etc. EVERYONE at the office knows she's into me. And she knows I'm not a one woman kind of guy, that I usually have a few girlfriends at a time tied up in relationships. She herself is married with kids...an arranged marriage of 12 years.

So the other day we were talking and I told her I'd stop cheating once I met the right girl. So she responds with a normal text. Then about an hour or two later she texts me again asking me to think about the criteria for the "right girl" for me and let her know my list tomorrow...

So do I give her an impossible list to try to attain and keep her chasing my validation or just stay mysterious and not give her a list and let her wonder? I've joked with her that I'm into blondes with blue eyes (true) and since she's a brunette with brown eyes she has little chance with me (she's still a 9, just not my usual type).

If I give her a list, how specific should I be?