So there's this girl I've known for a while. She was super into me and we finally fucked a few weeks ago. I texted her the next day that I had a nice time and she never responded to that message. I texted her a few days later abut something and then she texted me about something a few days later, but something was off. Definitely not as into me anymore.
I told myself fuck it, I'm not gonna respond to reach out to her anymore. She texted me last Saturday about something and I didn't respond. I wanted to see if I could get her back into wanting me more by ignoring her, or soft nexting whatever. Then she asks me a question last night. I didn't respond and was going to today, but she sends me this message "Are you not getting my texts or am I getting ghosted?" I answer her question and say "Hey hey, what's up?" then answer her question. She responds "Oh my god, you are ghosting me." And then responds to my statement. I say back "What are you talking about darling?" And then respond to her statement.
Is this proper? Am I gaslighting her? How do you handle the end of the soft next?
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