Im not the prize. In fact im a piece of shit. Just tell me where I did wrong.

redepicw · 2019-11-08T22:40:41+00:00

Sounds like you're on the right track. Everyone has downs every once in a while, sometimes they hit hard and sometimes for no apparent reason. Keep working on it.

You're being too unclear about the details of what happened with your LTR to provide any good advice. If she disrespected you, a soft next, minimum, is a good response.

SirKolbath · 2019-11-08T22:54:33+00:00

Your problem lies in the first and second sentences of your title. Correct that and everything else will fall in line.

She just went to a class about personality disorders and flat out told me today i have a narcissist personality disorder (in text).

There is nothing quite as arrogant as a woman who takes a single class in a soft science and considers herself an expert on that topic. I wouldn't soft next her, though. I'd forget she even exists. That is such a major act of disrespect she'd be dead to me.

LeatherBoundWisdom · 2019-11-08T23:06:47+00:00

If you're being beta, that's a behavior issue. Takes time to work out the bad habits and work in the good ones.

As far as "you are the prize" mentality, it has nothing to do with an actual belief that you are the prize. There is no such thing as "the prize", otherwise it could only be one or few of us and TRP applies to everyone.

"You are the prize" refers to the attitude you espouse and the rejection of any objective assessment of people. You enforce the frame "I am the prize" and girls either reject or accept this frame. Those who reject it have no value to you, they aren't interested enough. Those who accept it now are girls who are interested in you and by enforcing that frame you are able to provide the experience they crave, and they the submissive romantic partner you crave.

FemtoG · 2019-11-08T22:47:21+00:00

Your post reeks of mental instability and I can assume pretty safely you are low in hierarchy.

Why take what she (or anybody) says so much to heart? Is she a genius in your eyes? A brilliant insightful person? She just felt like pissing someone off and saw you as an easy willing target.

YOU decide what you are, damn what anybody else says. But it feels like you need to do lots of personal soul searching and self reflection to sort things out. Feels like you are a chaotic soul bouncing around in a chaotic arena. Main thing you are "doing wrong" might be hanging out with wrong people.

InkD_PipeHittR · 2019-11-08T23:30:17+00:00

Own it. Rome wasn't built in a day. Keep working on yourself. When I was married, my then-wife was constantly diagnosing with "personality disorders." Shit Tests.

Two days ago, a female co-worker told me one of her employees spotted me and inquired who I was and said that she could smell the narcissism on me from where she was standing. She laughed and told her she nailed it. Later, she felt the need to tell me about it, and I could see the search for a reaction in her eyes. More shit tests. Don't react.

Point is, you've been conditioned to think and feel a certain way and TRP generally goes against that grain. Keep moving forward.

Title	Im not the prize. In fact im a piece of shit. Just tell me where I did wrong.
Author	Strikingable
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	November 8, 2019 10:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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