"Good girls" who claim to be in love with a beta male

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-11-12T11:31:14+00:00

The same way a guy with low self esteem might get into a relationship with a troll, because it’s easy. Then he’ll start telling himself and others that’s the type of girl he likes and that she has a beautiful heart and shit like that

KeffirLime · 2019-11-12T15:08:52+00:00

"good girls" secretly fantasize about getting their holes stretched out by an Alpha male?

That's not really how it works....women aren't overtly aware of their inherent nature, they tend to be more solipsistic and self justifying.

It's more like "I love Billy he's the best", and she'll convince herself and everyone around her about that, until Chad comes along and shows enough interest that it's safe for her to branchswing. Then suddenly Billy was never right for her, or he was actually a tit, and Chad is actually her perfect match.

redhawkes · 2019-11-12T12:00:27+00:00

They claim theyre in love & jerks turn them off

Yea, keep listening to the diarrhea that comes out their mouth.

beachbbqlover · 2019-11-12T14:25:13+00:00

Flipping the script, I didnt pick the hottest plate to settle down with at my age. I picked one that cooked for me, was genuinely gentle and nice to everyone, and emotionally suffering.

She was a bit creepy at first. Falling asleep in her car outside my apartment because I wasnt there was unsettling. But I investigated it a bit and it was because of these traits and a naivety.

I dropped the others and chose her. She wasnt the prettiest one or the horniest.

Shes been good to me now for 12 years, and stuck with me when we had literally nothing more than a suitcase of clothes.

I've had my doubts at times, but she definitely has added to my life.

Some people dont prioritize looks over all else.

Rnee45 · 2019-11-12T13:10:23+00:00

I can't count how many women I've been with who were in such relationships

Psychological_Radish · 2019-11-12T15:31:26+00:00

That's the front that they put on for social media, which is a total smokescreen. You really have no idea what's going on behind the scenes. Just yesterday my high school buddy's GF posted a long love letter to Facebook. Sweet girl, by all accounts. Just a few months ago I saw her on Tinder...no doubt "taking a break" or whatever. Not an uncommon situation. The girl publicly has a Beta bf...meanwhile, she's getting railed in private by Alphas.

As to the good girls who do stay faithful, life isn't that much better. I dated a girl like this who was always "too tired" for sex. I wasn't Red Pilled at this point, but my gut told me that this chick just wasn't all that into me. But you have countless guys who rationalize away these red flags.

Jesusfeminist · 2019-11-12T11:19:51+00:00

How is anybody supposed to know if they “ secretly fantasize about getting their holes stretched out by an Alpha male”? Honestly it sounds like you have a very weird fetish.

Some girls just like being in control of a relationship for whatever reason that is

mikkeldaman · 2019-11-12T15:09:43+00:00

Sexual desire and being in love are not quite the same. They may genuinely love a guy who makes them feel good in general. But make no mistake, many are still willing to cheat with a guy that can satisfy their momentarily sexual cravings. With that in mind, if you are hearing this too often from girls, then you are not creating enough sexual desire because otherwise you would not hear about how much they love their boyfriend.

Also as a side note, don't be too quick to judge people as betas just because they are nice towards their girls. Being alpha does not mean being an asshole (after all internet trolls are also assholes and nowadays they are associated with incels). Women like being treated like children and are just as likely to go for a firm but kind guy (quite like a strict but loving parent) as they are to go for an abusive asshole.

bruiser18 · 2019-11-12T18:32:29+00:00

Girl I used to fuck got into a relationship with a pathetic weasel of a beta. Been together about a year. Today went into college (she goes there too) and heard from a mutual friend that she’s been trying to branch swing to a guy I know, yet only the other day she was posting pictures with Mr Weasel for his birthday. He’s oblivious. Almost feel sorry for him. Almost.

Hell, maybe I’ll even fuck her again.

But ‘yeah’ is the answer.

[deleted] · 2019-11-12T19:56:04+00:00

There aren't enough alphas to go around. There's the dual mating strategy to consider. What I've observed is that women like having someone they can control, so a beta makes sense from that perspective whereas an alpha takes a lot of work, time, and planning to control. Generally though, a woman would prefer an alpha who also makes a lot of money, and then to make him more beta overtime.

whammyfeet · 2019-11-12T19:57:43+00:00

Women have needs, we know this. They need security/status on hand and excitement/attraction on the other. RP teaches men They need to be the man that provides both to keep a woman interested long term. But women can survive on one for awhile depending on the situation. Security is usually the hardest fulfill so they focus on that and usually happens to match up with their desired life’s at the moment. I like to call them “purpose-driven Marriages.” Women that are more committed to checking off life events than the man they doing it with. Engagement, wedding, House, baby, whatever else. That’s what drives her. Once all those Boxes are checked... then what? The guy has served his purpose and now her other need is coming out of hibernation.

Anyway I’ll cut my spiel short... what I’m saying is that when you see these women... they are just in that stage. They found a guy that will serve a purpose. The relationship will not last nor will he be the only man in it.

thrwy75479 · 2019-11-12T16:39:39+00:00

How old are these "good girls"?

maddisser101 · 2019-11-12T19:34:28+00:00

This seems like a better question to literally ask a woman and not a man. We don't know what they're thinking. All we can apply is AWALT until we find a unicorn. One thing is for sure: everyone gets bored sooner or later and 'hypergamy finds its way over the walls.'

flatox · 2019-11-12T22:45:54+00:00

Women love opportunistically.

fascinate_tempt · 2019-11-12T11:30:19+00:00

if Jason Momoa would suddenly hit these good girls up and promise to marry them on the spot, what do you think would happen?

Title	"Good girls" who claim to be in love with a beta male
Author	Dry_Trick
Upvotes	22
Comments	44
Date	November 12, 2019 11:14 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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