I have a question regarding "The Bitch Management Hierarchy" and "HumanSockPuppet’s Guide to Managing Your Bitches". It says there that a plate is "Rank 1" and that "At rank 1, she gets to see you again". So basically, it's a chick who you meet periodically strictly for fucking. If she wants to get promoted, she needs to do something nice for you. In my case that would mean going out somewhere. But if she suggests that, then she's leading which is not good, is it? If I lead and I do that, then I'm effectively promoting her to FWB, am I not? Also if it's only get in, fuck, get out routine for a while, would she not start thinking I'm some kind of a hermit? I guess I can see how this could work when you're a broke 20 year old student, but not so much when you're a late 30s professional. Clarification would be appreciated. To me personally something closer to FWB seems like a more organic and natural option - going out to a movie or to grab something to eat every now and then.

Logistics question. I live in central London in an apartment with a large comfortable bed, climate control, nice view and all the cool shit, so naturally this is where I bring the girls to fuck. Most of the girls live in shared and crowded accommodation, so going to them would suck ass, plus I would waste more of my time. So a plate in this case travels to me by public transport, because it's good enough and girls are usually broke, the younger the more broke. The problem is that the two closest train stations are respectively 10 and 15 minute walk away from my place and in one case you have to cross a rather shady area.

So these are my choices when the girl is leaving:

  • Let her go alone and walk through the shady area in the dark (I just don't find that acceptable)
  • Walk her to the station and look like a bit of a tag along douche? Plus wasting my own time.
  • Just call her an uber and pay for it which is not a big deal for me and also solves the above problems. But does that then make me look like a beta bux?