My wife’s a friggin rockstar, she’s an in-house attorney at a Fortune 500. She’s hot and smart. I am not on her level. We’re hs sweethearts and have been together 15 years now and we have pretty traditional roles in our marriage, aside from the fact she now brings home 3x what I make. I’m struggling with feeling like I’m not holding up my end of the bargain. I’m looking for advice and ideas for things I can do that will add value to her life but won’t feminize me in her eyes.

What I bring to the table has become less and less relevant as her career continues to flourish. I’m handy but now when something needs done she just pays to have it done. Driving, opening doors & jars and killing spiders ain’t gettin it done. I used to give her weekly massages but now she goes to a spa. Lawn now gets professionally landscaped. Etc. I can feel her attraction for me waning as her climaxes have become less frequent. Help me out here.