Yes, you can be a nerd and still get laid, earn money and be confident because Life isn't a high school drama show.

We all know that if you're a nerd you are most likely asocial and you are not really getting laid but is it really because you are a nerd or is it because you aren't managing your time and contacts well?

I have heard many people say (especially here) that Video games won't get you laid, which is true, but your actions shouldn't be adapted to getting laid. You should do whatever is fun for you as long as it doesn't stop you from improving!

Which is my next point. If you have a certain activity that is stopping you from socializing and being a better version of yourself each day, then you are in a toxic relationship with said activity, meaning you should stop doing that activity (immediately!).

People are afraid of what they don't understand and that makes them angry/toxic towards you. You can still be a nerd and make friends (not online) because in the end you are still human on those other people are still Human too. You are a bit different than them but that's what makes you unique in the end. This sets you aside from all the other people that are into mainstream media and have the same opinion over and over again.

No, Videogames don't make you unique but a certain skill you have does and since you are a Nerd you should have a certain skill that is different from all the other things.

Whatever that certain skill you have is, you should practice it and share it with the people around you (don't be clingy and annoying tho), because that's what makes you stand out from all these other people who follow the mainstream.

If you only play Video games and you're bored throughout the day is a sign that you don't have enough stimulation in your life which can cause depression and anxieties that shouldn't even be there in the first place. You don't need a dangerous hobby or have an adrenaline rush every minute. You can stimulate your brain with music and art aswell (yes, even poetry can be a great way to stimulate your life).

It's not bad or wrong to be a Nerd or different than other people as long as you don't shove it down everybody else's throat and you keep improving your life.

I have been a nerd pretty much my whole life but I still managed to make great friends and yes even getting laid because I took risks and I am bold to not be afraid of them. I kept reflecting and improving and yes, I am still a nerd. I still play Video games and I wear big round glasses and a hoodie (but when I go out I dig a suit).

That being said, you can be a Nerd and still improve your life and make friends. The important part is that you take those steps to create a positive environment and a positive reflection of yourself.

Oh and before I forget. Being a Nerd isn't an excuse to not go lifting.