Wife doesn't seem to love me anymore. We have a 1yo child. Can it be repaired? Is it even worth repairing at this point?

Persaeus · 2019-12-06T14:29:42+00:00

So somebody please help out this fool.

basically, you know nothing about women and are very likely deeply unattractive, read the top stickied post in askMRP for the simpleton version of what all is wrong with you.

Is it her fault for treating me like shit?

doesn't matter, and no

Am I an idiot for ending up with a browbeating shrew of a wife?

yes, 100%

Should I make it work?

there is no "it". you make you work. after that the relationship is her role.

Should I make her make it work?

no, doesn't work that way

Should I just fucking escape?

only if you want to be loser your whole life, at least when it comes to women and likely many other things. you are your problem.

I don't know....

the only important line in this barf. you know nothing

Some of this is explained by the fact that my wife is from Asia, and she's quite traditional in some ways.

all women are depraved sluts for the right man, you ain't him. maybe you can be, maybe you can't. only you can find out. what's her number?

2019-12-06T14:53:04+00:00

Lifts, BF, Stats?

Recreate this in /r/askMRP and delete it from here.

Is it her fault for treating me like shit?

No, it's yours

Am I an idiot for ending up with a browbeating shrew of a wife?

You're an idiot for not realizing she's a reflection of you

Should I make it work?

You make you work, she may or may not come along.

Should I make her make it work?

You're not going to make her do anything.

Should I just fucking escape?

You'll just repeat the same shit over and over again.

I'm an overall nice person ~~that's easy to get along with~~ gives into others' wishes so they'll like me

FTFY. NMMNG is your friend.

HornsOfApathy · 2019-12-06T15:06:21+00:00

Mods - I'm going to ask that you do not delete this post. It's a fantastic example of the type of men that walk in here. OP did a good job of explaining his story, and is very typical. Can we keep it as an example?

Edit: Fuck, it got removed by mods before i could respond. Oh well. Leaving it here I guess.

Welcome bud, this is victim puke, but everybody gets one.

I'm going to break down your life for you. You likely have never had someone do this before for you, and it will hurt. You will also likely read all of this and think that I don't know what I'm talking about. You will attempt to make excuses and say, "But he doesn't understand". You will also think I'm an asshole. Be aware - I'm going to be an asshole by design, because you've likely never had someone be so blunt with you to the point that it hurts. That's OK. We were all in this boat once. Some of us sank. Some of us did not. You, if you don't heed my words, will sink and be miserable for the rest of your life - with or without this woman. So bud, strap in, listen up, put your ego away for the next few minutes and pretend that I know everything about you.

*hint* - I do know every thing about you. Because I was once you, well, sort of. You're a bigger faggot than I ever was, but I digress. How do I know everything about you? Because I'm fucking man, and all those things you wrote about being emotionally lonely I've felt too.

1 year old baby.

Most men become faggots when babies are born. We think we need to provide extra comfort, be amenable to our wives demands, and do whatever she asks and needs because she is the mother of our child. We want to do everything we can to make her life easy - because that's what a "good man" does. We sacrifice our own happiness most in this time to appease our wife's emotions because that's what we've always been told to do... and pregnancy/children ramp up this false mental model to an unhealthy degree.

Happy wife, happy life, right?

Wrong faggot.

Some of this is explained by the fact that my wife is from Asia, and she's quite traditional in some ways. She's also a prude, so that is factored in as well.

You have a good thing here that your wife is traditional. But, it's also pretty bad for you because you're not a traditional man. You're not a strong, confident, ball-busting, take-no-shit leader. Women who grow up with traditional ideals desire a STRONG and DOMINANT man in their lives. You are a pussy.

Of course she is a prude. Traditional women desire to be feminine and soft. Asian women (by a stretch of massive generalities) are viewed in the west as some of the softest, genuine, caring women to be found. It's not far from the truth because they have not yet been influenced by 2nd and 3rd wave feminism that most women in the west have been. But if you're not up to the task of being a STRONG man of high value, they will bitch, complain, and be a prude. Ask anyone here how they know. They'll tell you.

I guarantee you that if the 6'3, 215lb, 9% BF dude named Chad McThundercock who can pick up 450lbs off the floor that she saw last week in the grocery store buying grocerices for her faggot husband decided that she was going to be his for the afternoon, he would game her just a little and her little pussy tinglez would light on fire for his giant biceps and rock hard cock. He'd scoop her up, take her back to your house where he would carry her up the stairs, throw her on YOUR bed and rip her panties off and her pussy would be trailing juices as long as the Nile river and as wet as Niagra Falls while he shoved his seemingly massive cock inside her tight little hole. He would dominate her by slamming her face down on the bed and fucking her sweet little tang. She would moan and say things you've never heard before as he pounded her cunt from behind and she would never think twice about what she was doing to ruin your sweet little marriage that you think you have. He would flip her over, shoot a massive load of hot cum all over her face and she would take her index finger across her forehead splattered with his cum and wipe it all over her lips. After which, she would take that same finger, put it in her mouth and mutter the words, "Oh my god, Chad, you taste so good."

That's what women really want when they fuck a man. And it can happen to you.

Don't believe me? Fine. But your little asian unicorn is not special and is dying for a big strong man to take charge.

I have to be the pacifist but sometimes lose my cool because of how extreme her mood swings can get.

You're a classic Mr. Nice Guy who is full of covert contracts that say something like, "If I do the dishes, do a little extra laundry, have a good job, and take care of my wife and children, my wife will really want to fuck me and fuck me good! Oh, she says I need to do more stuff around the house? I'll show her! I'll definitely be getting some of that sweet little ass tonight!"

And inevitably, she doesn't fuck you. Because you have placated to all her whims and stupid requests and trying to be nice it has 100% made you less valuable to her. Why? Because if any man worth a fuck would listen to a tiny little asian woman and do everything she said, he definitely isn't attractive enough to tell that woman - No, I'm not doing that just for a little piece of ass and a lackluster handjob. Go fuck yourself, I'm just going to go call Ms. Cumslut down the street instead.

But, you can't do that becuase you're not capable of attracting any woman - much less your own fucking wife.

You need to read NMMNG (on the sidebar) like fucking yesterday. Start reading it today.

She seems to have some characteristics of borderline personality disorder, but thankfully not the full spectrum.

Hate to break it to you dude, but this isn't true. This is an excuse you're telling yourself because your wife just simply isn't attracted to you. I have a good post for you to read about this. Replace "Depressive" with "NPD/BPD/whatever" and this is your wife.

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ImNotSlash · 2019-12-06T14:36:13+00:00

I doubt this post will stay up but because I have time to kill I'll respond.

I could shorten this diatribe to one paragraph.

"I'm a great fucking catch my Asian wife is a bitch. Tell me I'm awesome and she's an Asian psycho."

I still look young for my mid 30s, stay in shape, don't drink or smoke, no real vices to speak of, straight arrow, I have a decent job that pays the bills and puts food on the table, no debt, and I'm an overall nice person that's easy to get along with.

Welcome to MRP, Stuart Smalley. There is nothing special about you. Know why your wife's friends think you're a catch (allegedly) and your wife doesn't? Because she knows you. She sees you and all the shit you hide from her friends.

We've always had a tumultuous relationship

So you're dumb ass spent 9 years with her before getting her knocked up? Yea, you're awesome!

She seems to have some characteristics of borderline personality disorder,

The fuck outta here bitch. My wife is diagnosed BPD. You're wife is diagnosed SOYS - sick of your shit. Don't fucking come in here acting like you know something when you don't know shit.

This entire fucking post is "she she she". Not once do you try to take responsibility for any fucking thing that's happened including knocking her up in the middle of a tumultuous relationship you fucking retard.

I changed my mind. I don't have time. I need to go pluck hairs from my nut sack.

red-sfpplus · 2019-12-06T14:39:20+00:00

I am going to the Ballet tonight with my gal.

Going to make her go wo underwear and with a butt plug in.

Happy Friday.

ImNotSlash · 2019-12-06T14:45:32+00:00

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