What do I have to do to make sure these people never get a whiff of eachother? I'm not going to get another fucking phone or completely hide myself, I just want the cheat sheet to live a regular life and not slip up over stupid shit. Obviously they will be texting me, occasionally calling me. Some will come through my dating profile. Changing their contact names might work but honestly too much work to keep up with if they peek at my phone and wonder why her name is "Ryan."

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I have 1 girl I'm seeing regularly and *trying* to take it slow (we're fucking) and see where it goes. She's cool. She's ok looking, nothing spectacular. Very sharp. But we're different people and might not work out. The less she knows the better. Honestly, I'd like to plow a few on the side so I can figure out if I'm deluding myself about how much I actually like her. She's not into open relationships so this is my only choice to figure this out.