Did I do the right thing by ghosting her?

NabroleonBonaparte · 2019-12-14T08:10:02+00:00

The only thing you did wrong was not ghosting her sooner.

Girls are kind of retarded in the sense that they’ll go out of their way not to hurt people. Instead of her saying she doesn’t want to be friends with you, she does passive aggressive things like ignore your message for days and then decide to respond. She doesn’t want to be mean and say she doesn’t want to be friends, but she also gives you attention to maintain a friendship. It’s codependent and extremely stupid, but that’s how many girls operate.

Next, you need to build up your self-esteem. You shouldn’t feel guilty for not wanting to be treated like shit. Girls can smell insecurity on a guy and you’ll experience this behavior for the rest of your life if you don’t fix it.

casemodz · 2019-12-14T08:59:02+00:00

Its hard but if you ever feel some odd shit going on, drop them instantly. Anything that makes you feel weird or think about it too much will just make you feel like shit in the future. Why? Those questions you're having are your brain trying to save you from heartbreak. But you're "heart" (and maybe your dick) are tricking your brain into "rationalizing" the situation. It's a fucked up cycle. Its like a homeless person begging for money vs a person with a fancy white outfit and a red bucket hanging from a stand and ringing a bell. Its a design meant to trick you into forgetting your common sense. Also, women are great at hiding their flaws and true self until you are emotionally attached. Women don't have physical power so they get their power fix by playing head games like that. You need to maintain frame at all times and never show that something bothers you. Shit tests are for shit women. Decide if the vagina is worth putting up with them or not.

Personally, I've ignored red flags due to desperation or for the sake of getting laid...and I wish I hadn't.

Once you have abundance mentality, it will be easier to ghost these thots that play mind games.

Women should make your life more enjoyable - mentally and sexually. If they aren't, drop them immediately.

And most importantly: do not ask for closure. That's for a serious relationship that you've had for a year or more. Don't try to talk things out or get her to admit or explain anything. If a girl likes you, she will move mountains for you. She will text you first. She will be down to come over at 11pm to fuck. When she's done with you, she won't text first, hardly texts back much, and start claiming shit like "I don't go out after I'm home"

Shit like that needs to be recognized for what it is - disinterest. Women are like dogs or cats in that sense. Don't chase them - if they don't want anything to do with you, just take it as a hint and move on. Its very hard to do but you need to have multiple women to combat this. When you have multiple plates, you're gonna ignore the ones who stopped being interested in you - women are usually better players than men are imo. They act innocent and society makes you think they really are.

ovrload · 2019-12-14T07:54:19+00:00

Lol if she doesn’t reply back by at least 2 hours she’s not interested. Sorry boyo

andrew_little1 · 2019-12-14T07:25:19+00:00

Ghost her correct.

DeborahBinLaden · 2019-12-14T08:24:41+00:00

Your head is so far up her framus it’s unreal, nigga. U got work to do, but this is a pivotal moment for you

HurricaneHugues · 2019-12-14T08:23:36+00:00

You probably won't reply? 50 bucks says you're gonna reply anyway. Delete her number and text thread, and move on.

Per_Horses6 · 2019-12-14T08:03:29+00:00

Same situation. Ghost her ass.

legend503 · 2019-12-14T14:37:31+00:00

Would be fun to answer if she asks what you're doing

"getting ready. Have a date, talk to ya later"

entrep4 · 2019-12-14T09:47:45+00:00

Yes. 100%. If a girl doesn't reply for a few days then she is guaranteed to be wasting your time, unless she has a solid excuse.

AlleyFrog96 · 2019-12-14T17:27:33+00:00

Body language is one thing, but some women know how to "kinda" fake that just to get free attention out of you before they've had enough.

What's the ultimate decider is how she reacts to your flirts.

Title	Did I do the right thing by ghosting her?
Author	Chaotic_Peace22
Upvotes	14
Comments	17
Date	December 14, 2019 7:14 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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