Many detractors say that the "never get married!" mantra is nice when you're in your 20's or early 30's (the reddit base range). But it's not looking long term.

Here is a fact that will upset you, and be controversial to TRP's desire for older 1950's style relationships.

Your life, in the third millenium, consists of multiple, several year stints of relationships. Maybe she'll cheat on you, maybe you'll get bored of her, or she of you.

That's fucking okay. You have enough confidence in your own life, and realize how quickly relationships end these days, that you'll be okay finding someone else. There are 18+ girls becoming single every day, increasing at a rate faster than the rate of those entering into relationships.

It's okay if you don't ever get married. You have an incredible 5 years, for example, from 30 to 35, and then find the next girl to enjoy her company after it ends.

Let's say she cheats on you after 5 years. Let's even say that 90% of girls cheat on their guys with Chad Thundercock's (who the fuck came up with that ridiculous passive aggressive title?) every 5 years. Is that the worst thing in the world? Yeah, I know, I have no standards or self respect. I have abundance, though. I enjoy girls treating me well for 5 years, and if they stop treating me well, I'll find the next girl for the next 5 years, within 6 months, because of my confidence.

I don't expect many on this sub to agree with me, but honestly, my most abundant attitude, is that I actually don't care if I get cheated on. I recognize girls' natures, and while I will try to minimize the odds of that happening, if it does, it's not worth my precious time to be angry. That's some girls' nature, and if it happens, I am confident that I will easily find another girl.

I will ask you, if you can truly say that?

P.S. If you say, "That may be all well and good, but, well, some of us value and want the traditional marriage model and think it's best for society!"

To those, I say: who is more "red pill" and accepting society as it is? TRP was always about bettering yourself above all others. Who cares if society is in the trash. You should be able to learn how to thrive no matter how society ends. Who is more willing to accept reality and find personal happiness, despite the external world? If you've been in this community for well over a year, my guess is that you remember that TRP is about accepting the world as it is, and optimizing your own life, not getting outraged at whatever state the world happens to be in, at the moment. There are always injustices. TRP is about accepting this, and thriving.