Many feminists tell us that all stay at home mothers are oppressed. Some of them even shame women who have more traditional preferences.

However, there is a huge difference between a woman who genuinely loves to cook and to take care of the family, and a woman who is traditional because her life revolves around male approval. This is what makes RPW different from other traditional women.

RPW, as well as RP, is an extremely conformist ideology. As much as it presents itself a rebellion against the perceived status quo that is feminism and the blue pill world, it promotes the conformity with the standards of a group. The problem with conformity is that a person can rarely be happy by suppressing their natural identity. A woman who forcefully keeps her n-count low, cooks, dresses and acts a certain way isn't satisfying her natural needs.

How did I come to the conclusion that RPWs are trying to conform to certain standards? Genuinely feminine or traditional women don't go online to ask for tips about how to be submissive because passiveness comes naturally to them. Genuinely feminine women don't ask strangers for permission to give their dates a blow job, they simply do it when it feels right.

One might ask: don't high quality men want their women feminine and submissive so they can lead the relationship? Well, attraction and compatibility are very important for a relationship to work. Keep in mind that when I say "attraction and compatibility" I am not talking about men whose qualities validate your value as a woman before society or by whatever standards set by RPW. With attractiveness and compatibility I mean a man with whom you feel good regardless of societal standards. If you need to fake who you are to be with a man then that man is not for you. A man who is not for you cannot be "high quality" by any stretch of the imagination.

One might also ask: aren't women supposed to be feminine? Differences between men and women are simply tendencies we see on statistics. In other cases, this differences are stereotypes that have never determined by science. Femininity and masculinity are sets of many different qualities. These qualities are not black or white, they exist in a continuum. It is perfectly normal for men and women to have qualities of the opposite sex. Masculine qualities in most women are a natural manifestation of their personalities. This also means that different men want different degrees of femininity in their women. If you happen to be masculine, the best thing is to find a man who likes low levels of femininity.

Feminine and unfeminine women find happiness all the time. Women who fake their identity rarely do.

Cheers,

The not so feminine woman