How to Push Past LMR

sealteamaus · 2015-03-15T22:51:40+00:00

i dont think theres a universal rule for LMRs. its all down to the situation. some women have genuine LMR because shes a cock tease but other chicks are just thinking aloud that they dont wanna be slutty and if you dont even acknowledge youre in.

NeopolitanAfterglow · 2015-03-15T23:41:48+00:00

Your point is that the question is invalid because it presupposes that all LMR should be pushed through. Which it shouldn't. It depends on the circumstance.

You need to figure out where the LMR is coming from.

If it's coming from her being completely unattracted to you, don't push past. Just end the date and hard next her.

Quite often it comes from ASD. She definitely wants to, but she's unsure if she's ready for a +1 to her n count. I think the low pressure sales pitch always works best here. Just tell her no problem, you're not going to do anything she's not comfortable with, but damn she's sexy.

The only circumstance where I can see actually pushing past LMR being correct is when the woman has a clear rape fantasy fetish. But you want to be extremely careful with that shit.

mryddlin · 2015-03-15T21:34:35+00:00

You may never get past the LMR, but she will respect you more for not being butthurt and worshipping her pussy like every other desperate beta does

this right here and I'd like to add be OK with a no answer, it doesn't mean anything to you because as the OP said you have other plates.

Even if you are dry, there are still other plates just waiting for an alpha.

swoleo_dicaprio · 2015-03-15T23:59:01+00:00

This is a non-verbal example of agree and amplify which I'm glad you pointed out. Agreeing and amplifying without explicitly saying you're doing so is imo the best way to use the concept.

Warning: Don't try this if you tend to verbal diarrhea when you get upset, cause then this will backfire.

A few years ago I fucked a much younger HB9 (I'm 30) and she would hit me up whenever she visited my city. The bombest pussy. Anyway.

After a year or two of this, she happened to show up when I was having a bad week. We went to some club and both got drunk; I always stay cogent (NEVER slur or stumble) but that night I was angsty. Packed into a brightly lit elevator at 3:30am I tried to feel her up while shoulder to shoulder with strangers. Naturally she blushed and turned away. Whatever.

Drunk and feeling saucy, I decided that if we were going to fuck that weekend, that she would have to initiate it. I wasn't going to be "shamed" twice in a row. Even if I was being "inappropriate" whatever. I said none of this.

We didn't fuck that night and she was visibly confused. At the time I had another girlfriend and she asked if I was being faithful to her all of the sudden, but at that point I had finished my evening joint, grinned at her playfully (are you kidding?) and went to sleep.

But she didn't even try to get me to fuck her. (Effort being a concept that is 100% alien to a teenage HB9.)

Finally -- and this is weeks later, on another visit -- she breaks down and wants to know why I don't want her.

I told her, smiling and being kind, "Look, I always want you. But I don't HAVE to have you. If you want me back, you gotta show it."

She asked, But howwww? (Keep in mind she's 19 at this point, so while a CC rider she's still naive.)

I said, "Dont even say a word. All you have to do when you feel that feeling [horny] is look me right in the eyes, or just touch me. Even just lightly on the arm, like this..." Cue her riding my shit like its the acela train.

She has initiated 95% of our sex since I began to cesar milan her ass. She cooks. She shows girl game. She sends me naked pics. Gifts. Affection. Compliments. Less than my other plates, who are HB6-8, but still a lot.

Tl;dr using agree and amplify with your actions, not words, can be an effective way to show a woman that she is the one with uncontrollable needs -- not you. But you need to be able to delay the gratification.

Shade_Raven · 2015-03-15T21:47:09+00:00

There becomes a point when LMR becomes a hamster test to a shit test. At that point you gotta just call a cab.

No plate is worth keeping around if she isn't putting out.

oldredder · 2015-03-16T03:10:24+00:00

In theory this is good but if the LMR is weak you can just get her to chase you, so she knows she's wet, wants it, is unsure if she should go all-in and you make her more sure by making her work for it.

By all means fuck the others and next this LMR-girl if she's not worth the hassle but don't just give up. There are ways.

Todd Valentine / RSDTodd calls his technique the pre-emptive freeze-out. The girl stops, pushes your hand / dick away, you act in no way butt-hurt but go do something else. Go to the bathroom, get a glass of water, go have a seat on a chair and read a book or something like you're not on because she's not. She will many times think she's done something wrong (she has) and want to make it up to you (actual sex).

The key is you don't push through LMR, you're not rapey or aggressive, she now feels she needs to work for you and defeats her own LMR. If she is still not down for sex she really wasn't into you enough anyhow.

Maybe she blows you, maybe you leave and go find another plate and fuck her good because this one's already expired.

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frakkintoasterz · 2015-03-15T23:25:37+00:00

Rofl this thread is dumb as fuck. there's a happy medium between acting like not having sex at that second is the end of the world and never bringing up sex again.

Fuck this advice, it's for fugly blue pill faggots. Get the fuck out

Title	How to Push Past LMR
Author	frakkintoasterz
Upvotes	8
Comments	25
Date	March 15, 2015 9:21 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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