I know I should read the sidebar but I need answers quick. I'm 17, girl I'm chatting to invites me round to stay at hers when she's home alone next week. I start flirting over text, start sexting and initiating what I intend to get up too next week (gonna fuck her) Today out of nowhere she explains we can't fuck, cause she doesnt want to be that girl that fucks outside of a relationship. I haven't replied yet, I know this is a shit test but my mind is blank, what should I say and how should I handle this? I know that when I'm round hers stuff will escalate, but I need to reply?