Cold approach VS choosing signals?

drevil_ · 2019-12-30T21:42:27+00:00

Obviously choosing signals better than cold approach. If you want to use no choosing signal as an excuse not to approach you are more than welcome, nobody is stopping you. You get in what you put out.

PiperBigBell · 2019-12-30T21:58:31+00:00

Why are you even asking a question if you're mind is already made up about cold approach being cringe?

If a girl is throwing out choosing signals it's still up to you as a man to go in the set and make shit happen. And guess what, the choosing signals she's giving could be for a variety of reasons. Maybe she just likes to flirt. Wants attention. Just wants a date from you and nothing else. She was bored.

She chose you! But for what? To find that out you still gotta escalate, get a number, get her out. All these steps. So you can rely on choosing signals, but more often than not they're an excuse for you not to approach the girl you really want to.

Waiting for choosing signals is basically letting women decide your dating pool for you as a man. Waiting discounts women who for one reason or the other want to fuck you but maybe they're just shy. They're low key. Inexperienced. Don't want to seem weird or thirsty, etc.

Title	Cold approach VS choosing signals?
Author	danielcrestwellbestb
Upvotes	0
Comments	3
Date	December 30, 2019 9:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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