I was a beta. How do I begin this journey?

jacques_cousteau007 · 2020-01-05T20:29:43+00:00

Your ass needs to go monk mode

Every new girl is an opportunity to show that you’re alpha.

She won’t know any better

The trick is to maintain that frame throughout the relationship

kegcs · 2020-01-05T20:24:26+00:00

[removed]

SirKolbath · 2020-01-05T20:25:54+00:00

It's dangerous to go alone. Here, take this.

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-01-05T20:25:33+00:00

Yup.

Go No Contact. That’ll be the hardest thing for betas, if you can success complete No Contact and Get Over her, then you’re well on your way young Skywalker

DrGandu · 2020-01-06T01:43:02+00:00

Same experience I've had with my LTR in first semester of college. I was just starting to swallow the RP.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7
It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

Your relationship is as good as over. She's already checked out: I suggest you start hitting the gym, reading the RP essentials and creating a fun lifestyle for yourself, because she is sure as hell not gonna be a part of it.

You wanna win her back because your ego doesn't wanna take the hit. Trust me, been there done that. It's gonna hurt like a bitch and you're gonna need to take some time off to yourself to let it out. After that, it's a day you never had before. Look forward to it: the RP transformation is worth it.

Speaking all this 2.5 months after that devastating ONEitis that lasted on and off for a month prior.

breakdatass · 2020-01-05T23:12:14+00:00

Keep in contact but fuck some other women, cheat if you have to.

Title	I was a beta. How do I begin this journey?
Author	kegcs
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	January 5, 2020 8:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/ekihx2/i_was_a_beta_how_do_i_begin_this_journey/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/i-was-a-beta-how-do-i-begin-this-journey.304251 https://theredarchive.com/post/304251

Comments