I’ve read many self help books and the concept I still cannot get past is how to give without expectations of getting something back. In my career, that has essential been by modus operandi. With my LTR, I seem to do it because they have done self less acts for me already and I have a need to “even the scales”. Even with my friends and colleagues, when I hang out with them I feel no urge to share insights and book recommendations unless they share their own wealth of knowledge and wisdom. Help me out