Women are not reliable

No matter how much you think she will be there with you, through thick and thin, you're mistaken. I took a risk and started a business, and she supported me in the decision. I began making money, but not as much as I used to make and I let it take a hit to my confidence. She said she'd be there for me and I believed her. But progress wasn't fast enough. Shit tests were coming left and right, and I wasn't in the right state of mind to deal with it effectively. When low times happen, don't think she will stick around.

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I love you today. Goodbye tomorrow

The title says it all. In one day it can change. What she said yesterday, how she felt, is not relevant to today. The media portrays women as the romantics, but actually it's men who are the true romantics. Our feelings don't change like the wind. Despite the typical image of men, we prefer security and consistency - we want lasting relationships; while women value things like newness, attention and change more than we do. Again, they are not reliable.

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She will strike when you're content

Can a man just be content with his progress in life? Can a man just take a breather without being tested? There is no break when you're involved with an attractive woman. I was happy with the relationship, almost too happy - apparently more happy than her. The consistency and security made me feel satisfied. I found the person I love - that's it - no more work. Wrong. You always have to be striving for more or your woman will notice. Even if you're striving for more you may be going to slow (in my case). Gotta keep moving forward, and keep gaming her.

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A woman will disrespect you in hopes that you will leave

When you get to a point where you've made too many mistakes, turned her off too much, she will start disrespecting you hard. Arguments will spark of nowhere. And you'll think 100% that the issue is the arguments, but it's not - she's causing them because she wants you to dump her. Women don't like doing the dumping. They would rather disrespect you and hope you have the balls to leave. If you don't have the balls? She will lose all respect and one day leave, and it will seem so sudden in the moment. If you start noticing really bad behavior, dump her, before the attraction and respect for you drops to an all time low of 0.

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The obvious: Never beg and plea. And never reach out after being dumped.

At this point, her mind is made up. There's no changing it. Begging and pleading will only make her despise you. Don't beg for someone who doesn't want you in their life. Don't reach out to them, because even if they do accept you back you will lose all power and turn into her little toy. Silence, self improvement and finding someone better is the only option.

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Much of this is obvious to many of you. But I am sure some could use the reminder.