The 'What IF' disease is a psychological disease, it is one of the worst diseases a man or woman can let take over their psyche. It is something you must conquer constantly, & over time it will be easier to ward off. It infects your mind by not taking action! The more you take action the more you can ward off this 'disease'.

I'll give you guys an example from my real life that just recently happened to me(I'm still heavily working on this, but I'm posting this on TRP to vent somewhat). Well I recently just broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago,and I reconnected with one of my friends who is a girl. I've been cool with her for a few years. We decide to go to the movies, to see the new Fast and Furious movie(Which is awesome by the way). I've always found her cute and I would totally fuck her given the opportunity. Basically the whole night I'm thinking in my head on whether I should try to make a move on her, but my mind starts to succumb to the 'What IF' disease. Like "what if she rejects me?", "what if she really doesn't view me as more then a friend?" etc. During the whole movie I was contemplating on whether I should try to put my arm around her and make a move, but then my mind makes more WHAT IF situations. "Theres a bunch of people around us, what if they see me get rejected, that would be embarrassing". So long story short I never made a move, I dropped her off. Then the next day, I made a beta move and sent her a text saying "So when are you gonna let me take you on a real date?", she took all day to reply and told me that she would rather us stay friends cause she doesn't want to lose a friend and its happened to her before blah blah. I didn't press the issue, I just said okay and moved forward with my life. BUT now all I can think is what if I would of been a man and made a move? Would she not think of me as a friend as much? Now the only reality I have is that I'm friend zoned. I will never know what could of happened if I would of took action.

So basically what I'm saying to all you guys whether its making a move on a girl, taking the action to go the gym, to work on some project, or learning something new, don't wait, and don't ask WHAT IF! Its a disease that kills your soul if it doesn't get handled in time, because thats all we have, is time. Don't think "Well I'm tired today, I think I'll have more energy or time to do it tomorrow", because you wont! Your brain wants you to stay in it comfortable little place, its just our biology. But if you want to be a god amongst men, you have to learn to be uncomfortable a lot. Don't kill your soul, feed it with pure action! Hopefully thats some motivation for all you out there, I'm writing this to motivate myself as well.