So I was dating this girl a long time ago. She is the proverbial nice girl with a strong eccentric New age health streak. She made me some great healthy food, showed me some of the out there alternative medical devices, and some freaky ass sex. Literally first time she was blowing me then I pulled out a condom and she said she had to go to bed, (not allowed to sleep in same room in her parents house) I held the condom up with my still too hard boner, no more than two seconds go by she RUNS back and jumps on top of me.

Afterwards we started chatting. I found out her dad had cheated on her mother and they just got back together after being separated. The father was fairly distant....at this point I my life I really didnt understand the significance of daddy issues or anything about women. But I was about to wake up.

So after a couple weeks of really casual dating were talking I the phone and she starts to tell me about how she had an abortion. I had gut wrentching reaction, I immediately knew that this would never be a serious relationship, non the less I felt no reason to stop seeing her. So I comforted her as a man should. "Oh my god, that must be so difficult" I am not against abortion but I do understand how fucking deviating that should be for a women, so I wasn't placating her.

"I had to do it", she says.

"Oh", I mutter while thinking that maybe her family is very religious or perhapse there was something wrong with the baby.

"I was raped, and it was his".

I felt awful for this poor girl, how could you not. I also felt very good believing that she had so much trust and comfort with me to reveal something so intimate. I dig a little more and I find out the guys name. And of course no she didn't press charges. Hmmm? That's wierd I thought.

Que white knight who was unknowigly being the black night. So I find this guy on face book. And tell his entire list that this guy had raped a chick. No more than an hour goes by and this guy first response is a phone number ad saying that my girlfrend is full of shit and this isn't the first time this has happened.

I call. His story is they were together for almost a year. She got preggars and he was gonna support it. Then without notice she late term terminated the pregnancy and claimed he raped her. I told him i believed him and I was so sorry. I was shocked though who do you believe... A potential rapist or the girl you've been dating.

I don't say anything to the girlfriend for a couple weeks. She drops the anger bomb on me, "I know what you did" "you fucking take that guys side""you fucking asshole" I could go on. I calmly ask her if after she got raped did she sleep with him again. She admitted yes for a few more months. "Bye girl" and it was a few months before I heard from her again and it was even crazier the next time.