Hi,

So I have this plate which I'm seeing since 4 months. I approached her on the street and we fucked on the first date. Since then we see each other every week or every other week at my apartment to fuck. We never did anything else and 90 % I texted her for logistics. Rarely some sexual stuff or when something special was up.

She came to my country a as a refugee and was virgin, I deflowered her (Im 28 and she is 21 btw).

Last time we saw was 12 days ago. I already got a little suspicious cause she took something that she stored at my place (my place is safer than her camp) with the comment "just in case we dont see each other again".

But everything seemed fine, we were talking about a roleplay we wanted to try next time and so on.

Yesterday I in the afternoon I asked her about her schedule this weekend, she answered shes not free this weekend but the next.

I didnt reply immeadiately and at 11:30 in the night I received this text from her:

"Idk how to say this in a nice way but u are by far the worst person I’ve ever encountered during text. It sucks cuz you’re so amazing in real life like wtf lol it’s confusing! and I know we’re just hooking up and nobody cares but I’d just rather hook up with someone who’s at least a good communicator. But I’m sure you’ll work on it because I noticed you always try to find ways to better yourself. :) (I wanted to tell u this a while back but I didn’t know how because I never encountered such awful communication lol I’m just not used to this) + i totally respect if this communication is what’s comfortable for you. You do you. I’m not asking you to change. But if that’s the case then I’d just rather not deal with it cuz it’s not for me 🙆🏻‍♀"

How do I deal with that?

Should I even discuss this with her over text, softnext, or tell her that I want to talk about that in person?

Anyway I find her text a little disrespectful and it looks like shes made that "problem" up to have a reason to dump me.