Hi everyone, quick question. My buddy (we'll call him Jay) is dating a married woman who has a kid with her husband. She professes her love to Jay, and hints (or outright suggests) she would leave her husband for Jay. She claims she hasn't had sex with her husband "since her and Jay started dating". She claims her husband cannot get erect, which is why she doesn't fuck him, and in general they don't get along. While I'm not a TRP expert, I've been trying to explain to him that this is normal female behavior, and you guys would likely have a proper assessment.

My questions are:

What are the odds she's still fucking her husband as well (who lives a few hours away)?

Can you ever trust a woman like this - can we chalk this up to a "one-time scenario" and if her and Jay did become a couple (and she left her husband), what would be the likelihood she could be trusted?

Any other advice or analysis you might have for Jay.

Thank you.