No one is forcing you to shave your legs: it has always been a choice. No one is forcing you to lose weight: it has always been a choice. No one is forcing you to have long hair: it has always been a choice. You can choose do to all these things. But i have a choice too. I have a choice between someone who will shave their legs and you. I can choose between someone fit and you. I can choose between someone who makes themselves look very attractive for me and somekne who tells me how im a rapist and a pig simply for having a penis. No kne is forcing you to do these things so why is it even an issue? It is an issue because you see the girls who put effort into their appearance gain benefits from it. You never see the work they put into their body; you just see their success. You want what they have without the effort they put into getting it. No one is forcing you to do anything. You are free to do whatever you will. But do not assume you will get whatever you want simply because you want it.