A "long term plate" i have been sleeping for over 1 year now, repeatedly says she's not jealous. And when she learned about a couple of side snags I've had her reaction was consistent with her words. I'd say she looked calm, almost relieved, that it amused her, and that these news boosted her libido.

Our status is something in between fwb and ltr. We're both in our 30s.

It is something new to me, I've never seen it declared so explicitly and I don't know what to think about it, though enjoy the freedom. I've rather had jealous girls in the past.

Is there and underlying message I am not getting?