Lately I just decided to leave some things aside and put my-self above everything, I just started saying no to a few people and they get pissed. Some dude wants me to ride cars with him and go to another city next to here but whenever I say no he gets super pissed off, dgaf, not my problem.

Some other dude from another city, an old friend of mine who's a narcissist sends me a post about narcissism, I don't reply because I don't care, I might be one too. He starts complaining next day how he sent that and expected me to talk about it and give him attention, what a self-centered view. He also sent me a pic asking if he looks nice, this happens often, I reply to him Ask a modeling agency! then compliment his t-shirt and dog to rid of that. He also got pissed about the modeling agency part and complains I'm aloof, reading messages and replying after 7 hours and stuff.

Why is everyone freaking out the more aloof and careless you are? I feel like replying to important shit mostly and not waste my time chatting trivial shit on messenger with my friends, but they don't get it. Some people can't take NO for an answer, and that used to piss me off until I started ignoring them and replying only to serious matters. Also some people won't ever understand I don't care about them.