Men at MGTOW, what would you recommend for an 18M (me) to grow from a boy to a man?

ElectricalCost0 · 2020-10-21T21:41:11+00:00

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2020-10-21T21:38:27+00:00

I'll do you one better: Stay off of social media. Avoid television "programs" (news, sitcoms, made for tv movies, anything with REAL in the title) like the plague.

Read.....read books that are funny, then read books that expand your mental horizons.

Everything else will fall into place for you.

All the best to you, sir.

me-dgaf · 2020-10-21T22:30:20+00:00

Learn sales skills (important no matter what you end up doing in life), a foreign language, hit the gym.

Yeah, and stay off social media. Focus on building your financial kingdom.

strangerthing7 · 2020-10-22T04:52:12+00:00

My father dropped this pill on me when I was child, he said, a man must always worry about three basic things, warm clothing, a belly full of food and a roof over his head and everything else is a luxury. If you can't afford these three basic things then you're doing something wrong. Once you can manage these three things, find the things that you are passionate about in life, the things that make you happy and feel accomplished and secured financially.

BlackPilledYekke · 2020-10-21T21:45:13+00:00

Being a man is defined by Nature.

No special trick required

YouSaidChicken · 2020-10-21T21:55:01+00:00

Go off on your own and seek your fortune, no safety nets.

someevilwhitemen · 2020-10-21T21:59:57+00:00

if you want to start growing up , start to fix everything by yourself making decision take initiative , make a plan stick to it , and figure things out by yourself

you will face problems , you will make mistake but its how you learn and dont panic life is long you have the luxury to try and fail , but you might get surprise how your personal success will make you feel and gain confidence in yourself

Last_Supermarket302 · 2020-10-21T22:10:58+00:00

Join the Army!

Well not really!, but move! Move away from your home, your family, your friends. Remove your whole entire support system you had as a child, for at least a couple of years.

You will quickly learn to take responsibility for yourself, yeah it will be hard, yeah it will be lonely, but you'll learn more, and more quickly, when you don't expect people to come running to help you.

johntheother · 2020-10-22T06:33:01+00:00

If you have not done so already - learn bookkeeping and begin to track/control all your spending. With whatever money you have at the end of each month - invest in buy-and-hold-forever stocks - established companies that are profitable and pay dividends. Don't day trade, ( you'll go broke fast) and don't get obsessed with daily up and down of prices - just put the money away where it will generate some small passive growth.

Learn to cook. Learn to use a sewing machine - both are superpowers. Start a garden, and grow at least some of your own food.

Get enough sleep, and make this as fixed a routine as you possibly can - the entirety of your physical health for the rest of your life is built on getting enough sleep, and having it be routinized.

Deplorable_X · 2020-10-22T07:37:21+00:00

Take responsibility, don't play childish games with your life decisions. It is a truly counterculture move to do exactly the opposite of what the world is doing: you have to work hard, differ gratification, try to avoid relations, and stupid friends. Invest, save and gain skills.

Beneficial_Garage · 2020-10-22T12:59:37+00:00

First thing first. Anyone in your life that's flaky and unreliable. Ditch them fast. Second. Don't mess with social media. Next. Don't let anybody know a lot about your business. There's too many nosey assholes in this world. Don't forget that. Start working on yourself. Exercise and eat right. Learn to do for yourself. Learn to cook. Learn how to change your own oil. Find a job where you can be outside most of the time. Learn skills that will help you for the time when society comes unglued.

Occasion-Mental · 2020-10-22T00:37:49+00:00

Depending on which country....Army or Marines (if an American or a Brit)...pay is crap, but you'll really be tested and find out what your made of.

XGHOW · 2020-10-22T00:38:00+00:00

Clear, quantifiable goals, and an absolute explosion of energy to achieve them.

Write them down then get back to us.

Great question, you are starting on the right path man.

MandalorianFree · 2020-10-22T02:26:28+00:00

Join the military and don’t look back

Si-Wo · 2020-10-22T03:42:46+00:00

Use youtube Channells like Sandman, Donovan sharp, better bachelor, think before sleeping, strong successfull male. All for your daily dose of red pill.

TigPlaze · 2020-10-22T14:42:22+00:00

Find something you love to do and then find a way to get paid to do it. Be mindful of your health. Find how to eat and exercise in ways that feel good and also promote your health and well being. Build up the life that YOU want, not the one that you think will attract women.

whassup_n_phx · 2020-10-26T15:21:50+00:00

I did a men's weekend at 45 and it woke me the fuck up. Highly recommend it for a young man. Mankind Project was the one for me. I'm now surrounded by a group of men who hold me accountable for MY life working. Several of them out there. This was the best choice for me. My 2 cents. My life completely altered into what I've always wanted it to be and I have good men around me that I can turn to. Priceless.

Title	Men at MGTOW, what would you recommend for an 18M (me) to grow from a boy to a man?
Author	TooCertified
Upvotes	32
Comments	23
Date	October 21, 2020 9:35 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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