This is going to be long. This will be part venting, part field report, part lesson, and part "never stick your dick in crazy" - hopefully you guys looking at a LTR endgame get something out of this. Another big reason I'm posting this is because of how some guys on here glorify Eastern European and Asian women as something better than Western women. TL;DR at the bottom.
I reconnected with a 9/10 Russian girl 24f after she messages me on FB, 2 years younger than me 26m. I meet her for coffee, start with the normal 'plating' process as you guys call it. Talk about my crazy sex stories, partying, vacations, etc. She's fairly quiet.
Date goes well and she's looking to make out. I crush her with eye contact go in close, drop the cheek kiss and leave after grabbing her ass with a hug. Next day I meet at her place, she blows me. 2 days later (she admits her period is over) I meet at her place, choke her with a belt, and have crazy sex all over her house.
She finds out I'm seeing other girls because my schedule is always 'full.' I haven't had a relationship in years and feel a connection, agree to stop seeing other people. At this point, I'm at the top of my game and as Alpha as I've ever felt - its easy to see why she would like me.
She moves in after 4 months - over the course of a year, she throws fits of jealousy that end in her physically assaulting me, days-long jealousy runs of depression, jealousy towards my male friends, distancing all of my male and female friends from me, etc. When we do go out mutually, she gets upset if she drinks, or mopes in the corner. Constantly saying how she "doesn't fit in" in every social situation that isn't at a high end bar/dinner that costs $$$ (my money - Eastern European girls do not pay for anything). She also constantly talks shit on any female I ever mention, whether its her looks/job/actions -its fair game.
I tell her after each eruption we are done, she says it'll never happen again. My frame breaks because it all DOES happen again, and I stay with her. NEVER DO THIS. THIS IS THE ROAD TO BETA.
On top of this, she asks me to stop using steroids. I go through PCT after 1.5 years B&C, where our sex life becomes non existent. She was good through most of this with minimal complaints. I recover well enough, but not learning previous lessons, giving in to female complaints = more problems.
I decide to regain my balls. After a $150 dinner, watching her mope after an argument about her jealousy 3 days prior - I decide I can't put up with this bullshit anymore. I tell her she needs to fix her behavior or we aren't going to work out. I suggest a break, with her staying at her parents house, as she works remotely. She agrees to a break, but asks me to still go on our planned vacation, which she has paid as part of our living arrangement.
3 days later she tells me she found an apartment and is signing the lease. I know this means we are over, she will not admit it. WATCH WHAT SOMEONE DOES, NOT WHAT THEY SAY. AWALT - they want to keep you stringing along until it no longer suits them. Begs me to still go on vacation which is 2 weeks away. I had no intention of cancelling, I can have fun with or without her.
Day before vacation, she calls me telling me she cancelled my plane ticket and I have a credit in my name. Saying its her decision because she paid for it and I should have to pay her back anyway - despite the fact that she makes much more money than me, and I pay for the roof over our heads. Over 1 week, this girl went from a good LTR to a vindictive, selfish, straight up evil human being. I've had breakups before - but none where the girl intentionally took a mutual breakup and turned it into a nuclear situation of drama and anger so she could justify it herself. Do not stick your dick in crazy, do not break frame, and do not put up with bullshit. Get out of situations on your terms, and maintain control.
TL;DR: Dated 9/10 Eastern European girl at the top of my game. Started as the best LTR - does laundry, pays some bills, wants to fuck 2-3x a day, anal/bjs, etc. Slowly chipped away at my frame by playing the victim card constantly, until one day I ended up in beta land without ever realizing it. Turns into the most vindictive cunt I've ever met towards the end.
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