How to stop worrying what other people think of you?

Reddit_Is_Garbage_ · 2020-11-11T22:31:31+00:00

As you age it'll happen naturally as the world fucks you in the ass you'll stop giving a shit.

Letter_Junior · 2020-11-11T20:56:21+00:00

Read the subtle art of not giving a fu**

whhoa · 2020-11-11T23:32:32+00:00

I think you need to really love yourself first. We fear others because we believe they think the stuff that we subconsciously think about ourselves. Free yourself from yourself first. Dance that stupid dance, sing while your voice cracks, learn to tune your judgement out and love yourself unconditionally. Its subconscious a lot of the time, watch for the self-critical thoughts. You deserve to feel comfortable even if you are weird or imperfect

IXseed · 2020-11-11T21:46:12+00:00

Now there's a different between giving a fuck about ppls feelings and not wanting to act like a complete social autist. Just find what your balance is and do that.

Joe_Doblow · 2020-11-12T01:03:16+00:00

Through awareness. You are on the right path. Dig deeper

Revolverboi · 2020-11-12T08:24:53+00:00

I stopped worrying after i had to wait a week for a result from a doctor. Everything is fine now, but that week i lost the fear of death and since then i just live my life without worries. So how to fix it without being at deaths door ? Hard to describe, no idea actually how you can overcome it. It definitely has nothing to do with talk to 100 strangers to overcome it. You truly have just to calm down and stop fear live.

Max-hex · 2020-11-12T15:50:29+00:00

Consistently succeeding and getting more experience (older). It’s not something which can be done with a technique.

UpstairsExchange2241 · 2020-11-12T01:08:12+00:00

Your facial features show who you are. If you are feeling unsure about something maybe you are feeling they could emasculate you or are in their mind. This is what helped me,..” you are not a mind reader” stop trying to read other people’s minds

falconiawillfall · 2020-11-12T02:16:14+00:00

Meditation

Unfallen_Bulbitian · 2020-11-12T14:48:57+00:00

I didn't think I ever really cared that much but turns out I was wrong. For me something happened and because of it, if I continued to care about what other people thought it would have been unbearable so I guess my brain decided to rewire itself to not care and now I really really don't give a fuck what others think

Title	How to stop worrying what other people think of you?
Author	Throwaway491506756
Upvotes	18
Comments	14
Date	November 11, 2020 8:52 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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