So I have been trying my best at TRP for years now, trying, practicing, failing and learning. So, normally when preparing for a first encounter I will listen to a TRP podcast or try to focus on what I need to say as part of my pitch. This week, I was like fuck it, I was meeting a girl, she was equal or less SMV so that went in cold. No plan whatsoever, just let it flow.

She was a professional, straight laced, pretty vanilla. Well, it worked. No agenda, no plan, just fucking being myself without a predisposition for everything.

Keep in mind this was the first time I met her. 20 minutes in, she was kinoing me (I told her thats how I knew she was into me). 20 minutes later she insisted in kissing me at the bar. 20 minutes after that in the parking lot (in the middle of the day) as we were making out she said she wanted to suck me off right there. In the middle of the day, trust me boys she meant it. I left to go back to work and she sent me a pic of her creamed wet panties! Unsolicited!

Point of the story, truly not giving a fuck, going in with no plan, push pull, teasing, keeping it sexual, rock solid frame, it all worked. After years of fits and starts, I truly realized what IDGAF means, it means letting go and dropping the script. Being confident enough to go in cold an run it.

At the end of the day, she jumped at the chance to be my plate!

So me question is, is the key to not really care or prepare, just dive in once you know your shit?