http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshh6iT68QfHd9Z93r0L

To a certain extent she has a point, but to backtrack a bit, back in the caveman era all it was about was fucking and reproducing. It wasn't a bad thing it was just a "was" thing.

Fast forward now though, manhood is more than just fucking a bunch of chicks and creating as many babies as you can. Yet, at a deeper level beyond what she is saying I think what should be addressed is the fact that she as a women is defining what manhood is.

This is the issue.

I am sure she is coming from a genuine place but, at the same time a woman can not tell a man how he should live unless she is in a position of being a Doctor, Therapist, Judge, Mother, etc. Even then you have to be cautious though on a certain level.

Point is, a woman can not tell a man how to live and I am not a fan when women try and do this.

Its like when a woman says:

"I want you to dominate me in bed" and the guy asks (Uh, okay tell me how)

Pussy dryness activated.

The judge in the court fails to see that telling a man how he should live defeats the purpose for how she will be attracted to the man in question. Again, I understand that she seems to come from a genuine place, but at the same time its levels to this man and woman thing.

A man of wisdom, knowledge, purpose, and experience from the past is the only man that can HELP define his manhood. Even then though, the man being taught must learn his own path and do him. If not, how can he say he lived when he is on his death bed if he never sought out to do things on HIS own terms.

The threat of exclusivity fears women because it gives men power to focus on themselves instead of trying to prove how to be a "Real man" in the eyes of women and society that only see him as another brick in the wall, while she and society rewards the man living his own purpose with genuine praise and worship.

Be a man seeking Mastery of life instead of falling into a trap door of mediocrity that the world and women try to get you stuck in.

You don't live at the gas station. You stop there when needed, pick up a few items to eat if you want to, pay, fill up the gas, then head out and continue on your path of life. People want to live at the gas station instead of treating it accordingly as it was meant to be to serve you and your needs.

Your not out to steal gas. Its a 50/50 thing. You pay then receive gas to fill up your tank so you can continue on in your road of life. This is how you should view women you are sleeping with, as well as others not offering anything for substance.

They are apart of your life. Not YOUR LIFE.

The judge in that video will not view it this deeply as we do, but deep down even a woman like her with some power and status in life will still want a man to has the balls to stand up to her and live life as he pleases striving for greatness not because he was told to, but because he KNOWS that already.

http://associationofchronos.com/2015/05/17/the-threat-of-exclusivity/

"Just get it" as Rollo says from "The Rational Male"