I’ve been seeing this girl for about 2 months and last night we had sex and I finished via oral in her mouth. She went to go spit it out (normally swallows) and came back looking disgusted and asked if she had bled during sex. I told her I hadn’t noticed anything and she said that there was blood in her mouth when she went to go spit. She had just been getting over a cold/virus so I told her it might have just been some mucus with blood in it from that.

She kept saying “this isn’t good” and was so grossed out she threw up and decided to go home instead of spend the night. I walked to her to her car from my apartment since it was late and told her to text me when she got back but she seemed very distant. I ended up texting her to make sure she got home ok and she just responded “yep” and that was it.

I feel terrible even though I’m fairly positive she’s overreacting. I don’t think I have anything to apologize for but was thinking of just texting her to tell her I hope she’s feeling better today but giving her distance. There’s a gut feeling I have though that she’s lost interest in me which also makes me feel bad.

How would you all handle this? Thanks