I feel my mom is pleased im not as pretty as her because shes always trying to get me to cut my skincare plans(even if thats just a serum) while pointing out my flaws oh ur eyebrow hair looks thinner, ur eyes look sunken, ur thighs and butt are too fat-yes i gained quarintine weight just 15 pounds(two years earlier she told me i need to gain weight so my face looks more filled out).

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She then goes onto say skin color doesnt matter but then points out oh so and so's bride is fair skinned(im south asian)

Shell also say oh like i look mexican ur brother looks mexican but yea u look indian(i know thats not supposed to deragotry but with my upbringing it is)

I know my solution is to move out but how do i do that gracefully without arguing back. I have to reply to her texts and calls and she does call be very bad words such as a prostitute for me doing a relatively small thing wrong. she has no limit to her mouth and thinks being a houswife while having a masters degree is the worst injustice a human has faced