hello fellas,

3 weeks ago a girl in my college, I asked her out for tea, she said "maybe", I know that "maybe" is worse than a no, she's playing games. So, i responded with the ultimate "if you want, tell me, if you're not interested, thats fine.

thats when she responded with "im only interested in going out as colleagues, if you have other intentions, they are not available"

sad, but i'm happy cus i know where i stand with her so because I see her everyday I kept it neutral

"Lol okay, see you then"

I stopped giving her any attention.

a week later she started replying my stories...i ignored..

she kept replying to several stories of mine.

5 days ago, she directly msged me "are you mad to me?"

i responded with "furious..." she sent me 3-4 msgs afterwards, totally ignorned her, im not giving her any attention, ZER

but today. she hits me up with the "do you still want to go out for tea?"

I havent responded yet and honestly not so sure about this, how should i deal with this? i like this girl but she doesnt like me (i think?), i know this is beta but i kinda have feelings for her, she is persueing me, like she saw me 3 days ago and pinched my abs and sayed hello with a smile and left..

how would you deal with this?

Update:

I replied with

“not as colleagues” She: “as whatever you want baby😏😏” Then i set up date 3 hours later She sent me 10 msgs as follows: “i decided that we cant meet i dont want you to be sad because of me Its about my ex Im emotionally unstable I dont wanna go out with guys so i can forget him Bla bla bla This is my problem that i should resolve alone”

I ignored her, left her unread and muted her Its been 3 days