How do you feel men should approach these relationships? These are some potential red flags that I had ignored before but now after reading up on all of this and noticing it I almost feel like I'm being played by this girl or she's pretending to like me for the benefits. She has hella followers on Instagram and Snapchat (like 1.4 million score on Snapchat) and acts annoyed by them but doesn't really remove them. Something has been holding me back from commiting to a relationship like she says she wants and I'm thinking maybe this is it unless it just takes home for me to commit/open up.

I'm 20 and she's 18. Met her on bumble a couple of months ago and we always seemed to have good chemistry and shared humor but something always stopped me from commiting and I couldn't put a name on it. And after reading all of this red pill stuff I feel myself losing trust in her and whether she actually likes me or not and I hate it