Hi,

I’ve been MIA for awhile. I’ve been working on my shit. I started lifting a month and a half ago and have a solid 3 day regimen. Results are noticeable and I’m eating clean and adhering to my macros to build muscle. I’ve also curbed my fixation or oneinitis problem by having two phones one for personal and one solely dedicated for women where I only check once or twice a day.

Anyway, I’ve found that since I’ve been lifting, working more, and just bettering myself in all ways. I haven’t approached any women. In complete honesty, I’ve had a couple women come up to me, but I curved their enthusiasm as I was not attracted (crocs are an immediate red flag to abort and married women). Others are coworkers and I abide by the golden rule of not fucking around there.

I feel as though my nose is almost too close to the grindstone and I have ignored or haven’t seen any indicators of interest from women.

Self reflecting I believe I still have an ego problem of not wanting to be rejected and haven’t forced myself to push through the weight of no. Perhaps it is a matter of pushing the weight like I do when I lift and persevere as I always have done.

Anyone else have a tunnel vision so to speak where you do not even focus on your game but instead all focus is on lifting and bettering yourself?