Hey so two seperate girls have dumped me after the first or second meetup

First girl: we meet out for drinks night one, had a lot of fun just a small kiss on the cheek during the interaction then we had small logistic texts back and forth for a week until date 2. Date 2 she comes to my house and I make dinner, after dinner we sit on the couch and watch a movie and she isn’t receptive at to my kino despite us kissing. Day after she texts me that we’re not a good fit.

Second girl: meet for drinks have fun but only spent an hour together because I had to run. The second night (three weeks later) we meet up for a longer period of time at a dive bar and talk for an hour and half. She’s laughing and I feel like the date went well, kissed her on the cheek and then as we were walking out. Day later she sends me a text that “we are looking for different things and best of luck”

I’m in a somewhat dry spell right now and trying to understand where I am messing up. Am I being too aggressive? Am I talking to much during the date and not asking enough questions of them?

Any opinions. Thanks!