Last night, I discovered an insecurity of mine.

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AureliusThunderkok · 2015-06-28T05:27:07+00:00

< I always fell into the leadership positions because I was unafraid in expressing my own "uniqueness".

That was the special part that gave me the tingles. So brave.

NightGod · 2015-06-28T07:13:04+00:00

/iamverysmart is leaking again. Who's turn is it to fix it this time?

BUVYX · 2015-06-28T06:09:29+00:00

For me, I always resonated with innovators and creators. People that absorb the knowledge and information around them like a sponge, understand that information, and is able synthesize and apply it in new ways to the world. Instead of living a life of homogeneity, they spread their uniqueness upon humanity.

Dude. C'mon. What is this crap? Sidebar ASAP.

DRMMR76 · 2015-06-28T07:39:55+00:00

This reads like a new age yoga-teaching hipsters trying to write a speech for a business board room, with all the cliche catch phrases. Surprised I didn't see "paradigm" or "synergy" in there.

ScholarInRed · 2015-06-28T08:01:08+00:00

You've established that most people are beneath your standards. Most people aren't going to change, so either change your standards, or get used to the vast majority of people being useless to you.

I'm not sure if my insecurity is in being alone. I actually enjoy being alone -- it's when I am most productive, it's when I can work on being the best man I can be.

There's contradiction here. If you were truly happy being alone, you wouldn't be asking how to have more human connections. And this is a waste of a post because talking about your personal, intellectual issues is not a valid thread on this sub. There's got to be some overlap between you and the rest of the community, else the community doesn't benefit.

So how is that you guys connect with people that share such a completely different mindset to us?

Bluepillers? We don't, really. They don't like us. We're the guys who pump and dump their Unicorns. This generally makes them mad and bitter.

do0mality · 2015-06-28T06:18:49+00:00

First time poster on here. From what I understand, if you think someone's a loser, get rid of them from your life. If they have no value to you, they're a waste of your time. Don't give people second chances if you've already have given them your attention once. Just move on, find new people, and if they "connect" and are positive influences in your life, then keep them there. Otherwise, who cares?

Tropicana89 · 2015-06-28T14:09:21+00:00

Hey man, i'm asian too. I remember feeling similar thoughts so I understand what you're saying.

Here's the deal. Its great you want to be a creator, innovator, etc. keep that up. The problem is that something about you is preventing you from meeting other like-minded people. There are tons of smart, ambitious people.

I think what's holding you back from meeting such people or such people spotting you out: #1 You expect loyalty before giving. If a person is satisfied and already has lots of friends, they're not going to go out of their way to make new friends from complete strangers. You don't have that luxury, so you need to pay your dues. If you want to make new friends you got to put in value first, before expecting anythingin return.

I used to be called same thing, intimidating, lone wolf. I was the leader, etc. i used to be proud of this. Only later I realized although it showed some positive traits, it was a reflection of one negative trait, which was decreased ability to get people to like me. This is really important in life. I found I was always the best in the group. And I realized its because my negative attitude was driving away the best people. Ideally you want to be in a group where youre the dumbest or least successful. To do this always Be humble, give value first.

2: You're underachieving currently in your life. If youre in the ghetto, youre not going to find the people who you want to meet. If you're at Harvard or some shit, you'll probably find a lot of smart people. So work your way up in the world and you'll probably find like-minded people. Again, youre going to need patience and pay your dues. You might be alone for 6 months grinding it out before you move up and cool people pop up out of nowhere.

Anyway, PM me if you want to talk about this anymore.

[deleted] · 2015-06-28T08:30:54+00:00

What a special snowflake. Tell us more about your uniqueness.

norstar1 · 2015-06-28T06:23:52+00:00

Sexual oppression? Dude, you'd be hard pressed to find a place in the world where guys can't fuck a chick if they're motivated enough. Choosing to wait to fuck isn't bad in and of itself. If it stems from some whorish harpies using tactics to control where your dick should be, then you should show concern.

bsutansalt · 2015-06-28T15:53:04+00:00

Removed. Add a flair and message me once you follow the format guidelines here:

http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3a0135/announcement_new_thread_requirements/

Redpillthriller · 2015-06-28T06:48:50+00:00

Look at how dumb, un motivated and short sighted the average person is. Then realise 50% are even worse.

[deleted] · 2015-06-28T11:28:20+00:00

Someone very smart once said that 99% of what people say stems from their own insecurities. Re read your post and see if that holds up

Title	Last night, I discovered an insecurity of mine.
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Comments	22
Date	June 28, 2015 4:40 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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