I will make this quick. There is a new wave of YouTubers and social media personalities other out there lately and they are talking our language.

When I see women respond to these posts and videos (and even some who are the subjects of those pieces) I noticed a pattern.

Women are wising up.

You probably already know what I am talking about, and I know I am not the first person on this sub to notice it. But now that I DO notice it, the pattern is STRONG.

The danger we are now facing is a very subtle one; We cannot trust most of the women claiming to be tradcon suddenly in their mid-30's. They are chameleons and will say whatever they need to say to get a man to commit. They know that Chad is not happening, so they are seeking out Good Men - or whatever they can get.

On the other hand, we don't want younger women to think we are dumping on tradcon values either.

It puts them in a no win situation. It really is a catch 22 for them. I do not really sympathize as it was a small minority of blonde haired elitist boomer women who did this to them. So they will have to suffer for a few generations before they reject this on their own because of the cruel injustice of it - not because they want a man.

Be careful men. Be on the lookout for women who claim to be traditional or conservative. Especially the following types:

1. Those who had a long single life and cannot explain large blocks of her past.
2. Seem to be obviously new to this and treat it like a cool new fad.
3. Those who are a little too "enthusiastic" or obvious about it. Instagram, social media, photos, etc. The term "the lady doth protest too much" comes to mind. The more obvious her tradcon "lifestyle" the more suspect.
4. The more loudly she decries feminism, the more suspect you should be.

At the end of the day, a true conservative woman over 30 has babies. She is likely divorced or widowed. Her husband did not abuse her because she would never marry such a man. Her children are well adjusted and doing well in school. She is easy going and calm about adversity. She does not trash talk an ex. She does not bleat about the TRADCON lifestyle, she simply lives her values and it shows.

Watch out for women claiming to be "TRADCON"

They are reading our posts and the millions of other messages from men over the past few decades, and the millennial women are taking note and making adjustments. Be mindful of this.

Trust but verify.