Anyone else see this happening??

nicethingyoucanthave · 2015-06-30T16:50:18+00:00

The red pill is about improving yourself

I would say that the red pill is about accepting the reality of human sexuality - letting go of blue pill lies.

It's a theory about how the world really works. PUA is more practical advice.

So in that sense, I agree with you that the plethora of "how do I pass this test" questions are indicative of a problem. The problem is, if you really accepted the truth, then these things (shit tests or whatever) would not bother you. You would improve yourself mentally and physically and not worry about any one particular girl.

Because the truth of the culture you find yourself in is that failure is just part of it. There is no magical incantation that gets you a specific girl. But there are behaviors and traits that increase your chances - like counting cards, you're still going to bust sometimes. If you feel the need to come here and say, "here's the hand I had, and here's what I bet, but I busted - please someone help me!!" then you're not getting it. Understand the underlying theory and you'll win more often, but never even close to 100%.

Man, I fuck things up constantly. I know for a fact that I blew what could have been a sure thing just last week. That's life. I accept it as my failure and move on to the next opportunity.

The "how do I pass this shit test" people are focused on specific outcomes. They're looking back instead of ahead.

Suravira · 2015-06-30T16:36:50+00:00

Depends I think, when people do it to hash out a situation it's helpful, like theoretical situations and situations where you blow out on FR, these should be discussed and are quite helpful.

I think there is an overload of people who aren't hitting the sidebar, and just posting.

DonBravera · 2015-06-30T16:37:20+00:00

As a child I read through the bible alot, at a older age, I did a full 360 and began questioning the bible, the problem was that I already knew the answers, I just wanted to find an answer that fit my agenda.

This is the same with TRP, after reading the sidebar and 100s of posts, anytime I have questions all I have to do Is search within and the answers are bright as the sun.

The rules of posting is that you read the sidebar, these people obviously haven't.

bigleeroy · 2015-06-30T17:01:58+00:00

A lot of there's posts talk about how there is no such thing as a unicorn and that a perfect woman doesn't exist, well no shit. Even me knowing how the world works and seeing this different light has still shown me how emotionally driven I am and even though I can't change that I can cognitively realize things that help. Women are the same way that's where game comes into effect. There are no rules but there are always constants and variables and a constant remains that we are creatures of instinct through and through and no matter how much we try we can not change that part of our hardwiring. We can not change our emotions but we can understand them and that is the main part of swallowing the pill for me because it's different for everyone.

2015-06-30T18:15:29+00:00

Im new somewhat, and yes, its confusing. Anyone can just write a piece as if they are an authority. More quality control would be nice.

Assassin1476 · 2015-06-30T19:18:40+00:00

It's like people who are sick. They only want to ask certain questions and get answers whenever they're suffering from something and want to find out how to temporary relieve the problem than actually cure it. It's good to figure out how to relieve the problem but if you don't know how to prevent yourself from getting sick in the first place, you're doomed for many repeated failures. So before you ask typical questions which have been posted here literally a hundred times before; looking for a temporary answer, you should really just sit down for a weekend and read everything from the side bar then read every article that pertains to them, their situation and questions they have and read the comments down below to people who're answering them. That's trying to find a cure for your sickness, not some DayQuil relieve tablets that don't do shit.

This 'Red Pill' forum is literally like the tomb of King Tut when it comes to knowledge and wisdom. It's rich with details, field reports, stories, logical debates and the successes and failures of many individuals. I've felt like I had a pretty good understanding of the many Red Pill philosophies before somehow stumbling on here myself and this place has indeed sharpen and polished what I already knew and showed me what I also had to work on as well as new view points and ways to look at things that I've never considered before.

As Bruce Lee said “Emptiness the starting point. — In order to taste my cup of water you must first empty your cup. My friend, drop all your preconceived and fixed ideas and be neutral. Do you know why this cup is useful? Because it is empty.”

Leave your ego, worries, concerns and anger at the door. There is never a loss if you choose to make a lesson out of something, absorb what is useful and discard what's not. If your eyes are open, keep them open and if your eyes are still close...be patient. They will open.

collidoscope · 2015-06-30T19:45:23+00:00

The worst ones aren't the ones making posts asking clueless questions. The worst ones are the clueless "eager preacher" advice givers. They are taking sidebar elements out of context and firing them out in the comments section, or they're making theory posts that have nothing to do with a real life experiences they've had.

On another post, one commenter pointed out how it was a mistake for the OP to date a women who took a year off between high school and college. He assumed it meant she was a party girl who wanted to ride the CC. A gaggle of other commenters agreed. The OP made horrible choice after horrible choice with this woman (against his own instincts) and that was the "red flag" some of the commenters bumped on. How fucking stupid are these lemmings?

bigleeroy · 2015-06-30T16:30:22+00:00

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CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-06-30T17:39:07+00:00

A lot of people can't learn just from abstract concepts. Spitting all the theory in the world won't always help someone get a witty response. Sometimes, people need to see things in front of them clearly in order to piece it together with a pattern, with the help of a theoretical background. I doubt those people on asktrp are trying to remember each line perfectly. It seems more likely to me that they're adding data points to their set in order to draw a better pattern/inference out of a wider database.

Of course, some of them are just drawing a blank and there's nothing wrong with that.

Title	Anyone else see this happening??
Author	Deanb1307
Upvotes	16
Comments	20
Date	June 30, 2015 4:22 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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