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I would have ignored it
/r/askTRP24/04/16 06:12 PM
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So what do I do here
/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:43 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:31 PM
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Hahah God I love Reddit
/r/seduction30/03/16 05:09 AM
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I do something even easier than this. I walk up to the dance floor. Dance around. Find a girl I like and just stick my hand out and smile.
/r/seduction27/03/16 02:32 PM
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This is along the lines of what I was thinking after the fact
/r/askTRP22/03/16 03:55 PM
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right? lol
/r/askTRP22/03/16 04:49 AM
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Tell them they're hot and you want to fuck them.
/r/seduction13/01/16 03:37 AM
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Because you WILL die one day. Hes telling you not to give a fuck and stop taking shit so serious. To live your life with purpose while you are still here. Tomorrow is never promised for anyone. Instead of being scared about dying. Take it for what is and live it the fuck up
/r/askTRP25/12/15 07:28 AM
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True. But it isn't about the game being more competitive. It's about losing my friends and watching them make stupid decisions because of lack of knowledge
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 02:22 PM
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this
/r/askTRP12/12/15 06:00 AM
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That's a good way to put it and I've tried to do this. The only thing is my axienty is gone. My nervousness is gone. I'm energized and not in my head. It's hard to just make that stuff go away and find that energy when off it. Even after being sober for sometime
/r/askTRP06/08/15 04:38 AM
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What are some good ways of keeping frame in these situations
/r/askTRP22/07/15 07:38 PM
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He has that kind of gay guy voice. So if he is how's the right way to treat it. I don't want to attract him obviously but I don't want to sound butt hurt
/r/askTRP22/07/15 07:09 PM
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thats a good point I do talk a lot but I feel like people will think im boring and uninteresting if I dont show my outgoing personality
/r/askTRP17/07/15 04:48 AM
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I do lift have for a while and still get pissed and am impatient.. I read no more mr nice guy but def am going to read it again at this point in my life. I have always been good with women but thats mostly at bars I want to be good in all aspects of my life without alcohol involved The problem is I think Im a dick and it causes people to treat me like one back and then I act like a bitch about it..
/r/askTRP17/07/15 04:47 AM
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I do get paid to stay late but it's annoying to always have to. What do you mean by pissing contest and leveling with him. Can you elaborate more? Should I say anything or just let it go? How do I NOT get emotional about it. That's a big problem of mine. And yes he def does that technique you mentioned because he didn't do everything right either
/r/askTRP16/07/15 10:41 PM
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I read it before. I should probably re read it
/r/askTRP16/07/15 10:33 PM
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At work people don't pick up their slack and goof around and then it screws us on our shift. They get to leave and we're stuck with all our work plus theirs and it pisses me off. Plus the guy I work with is slow as shit and it causes everything not to get done and Then we have to stay late every night. Instead of helping out on things he should be doing he'll be fucking around or doing other shit that is less important. I am not his boss but it's just me and him on this shift. I feel like I bust…
/r/askTRP16/07/15 09:13 PM
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At work people don't pick up their slack and goof around and then it screws us on our shift. They get to leave and we're stuck with all our work plus theirs and it pisses me off. Plus the guy I work with is slow as shit and it causes everything not to get done and Then we have to stay late every night. Instead of helping out on things he should be doing he'll be fucking around or doing other shit that is less important. I am not his boss but it's just me and him on this shift. I feel like I bust…
/r/askTRP16/07/15 08:46 PM
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Everyone keeps saying that but I feel pretty normal for the last couple weeks. Is there something I don't know about
/r/askTRP14/07/15 02:46 PM
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frame I know, I can see this really has helped, do you have any advice on it or any good articles about frame
/r/askTRP14/07/15 05:49 AM
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yea my question is how do you get here
/r/askTRP10/07/15 05:29 AM
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my exact next question..
/r/askTRP10/07/15 05:29 AM
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So how do I change this
/r/askTRP09/07/15 11:10 PM
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I have done both lol. I meditate 10 mins sometimes 2 sessions. Everyday. And have read the book before
/r/askTRP09/07/15 11:09 PM
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Look dude you asked the question, so deep down you know it's stupid, you're just looking for someone to prove you wrong. Well this isn't the place. You just met her. Know nothing about her (especially in 6 months) do you live with her? Because if you don't then idk why you would even consider marriage. I thought I met the "love of my life". Was wit her for 2 years. Once we moved in that was IT for me. I wanted nothing to do with her. What's the rush? You're making a long term decision that if it…
/r/askTRP09/07/15 04:08 PM
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You NEED a wife? No you don't
/r/askTRP09/07/15 04:03 PM
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What did you do to get to this point?
/r/askTRP08/07/15 11:13 PM
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you have any solid advice?
/r/askTRP08/07/15 07:14 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP08/07/15 07:13 AM
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I cant think of any off the top. But what if I am being a dick how can I tell or fix it?
/r/askTRP08/07/15 07:02 AM
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How does one acquire this type of frame/skill ?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:20 AM
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Yes I was thinking the same thing
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:18 AM
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This is a serious question wouldnt him getting pissed off at her be falling into her frame?
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:06 AM
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I was already addicted to opiates for years Im 60 days clean so Im trying to do this whole thing drug free
/r/askTRP08/07/15 04:47 AM
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I disagree, I have results to back up my evidence. You dont have to agree this is just to give guys another perspective
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 04:46 AM
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Youre comparing apples to oranges here, yes you need a strong foundation but theres more to it than that, theres levels to this shit man. Instead of being a rock Be a bridge made out of rocks...bridges have strong foundations but also have flex in them, too stiff and they will break. Same with this shit, you need to be able to flex and bend when needed to be strong as fuck..Be like a bridge not a rock
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 04:43 AM
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The whole package for yourself, which works in your benefit when it comes to her
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 08:22 PM
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Awesome man this is exactly what I wrote it for because I came into the red pill doing the same shit. Until I realized doing what I always have done worked even better.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 08:21 PM
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I can smell the hatred on you.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 04:03 PM
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I never do any of those things. It's not an insecure side I'm talking about. It's an affectionate one and it works
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 03:55 PM
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Totally agree I think that last sentence goes without being understood to some men here, especially new comers. Guys are told to "Not give a fuck" its all about you, you, you, and she has to follow, fuck what she has to say or thinks. For a female that shit is emotionally exhausting and eventually will blow up in your face.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 07:46 AM
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Can you elaborate a little more?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 07:38 AM
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Im not looking to change my formula, I am trying to give guys who come on here a different perspective, based on my experiences. Especially these guys who come on here and turn into women haters, who are afraid to show any emotion. Thats all.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 07:37 AM
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Weed scares me. And I do meditate
/r/askTRP07/07/15 01:52 AM
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I do. I go to the gym and mediate everyday but I don't see how that is going to fix my subconscious and past lol
/r/askTRP07/07/15 01:52 AM
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I do meditate. Everyday 10 mins or more depending on my schedule. I still don't see how focusing on my breathing is going to fix my subconscious problems though
/r/askTRP07/07/15 01:52 AM
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How do you pass that shit test
/r/askTRP06/07/15 11:40 PM
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can you give an example of what you mean exactly?
/r/askTRP06/07/15 05:30 AM
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I know I have an ego based around the women I get, I need to fix it, any idea?
/r/askTRP06/07/15 04:11 AM
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yep its true man.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 05:50 PM
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because I dont want to use it as a crutch, you know?
/r/seduction04/07/15 05:48 PM
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I have trouble approaching sober. Its like I literally feel them rejecting me as I say hello. Its weird and I am very empathetic so I almost feel like they dont want me around or I become that guy if I stick around or come back
/r/seduction04/07/15 08:43 AM
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good advice thanks man.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:22 PM
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how do you approach this? what if you approach and it actually is her boyfriend?
/r/askTRP03/07/15 05:21 PM
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how did you get yours back
/r/seduction03/07/15 05:19 PM
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no
/r/askTRP02/07/15 04:27 AM
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lol why does everyone find that funny I get called this a lot though
/r/askTRP01/07/15 11:54 PM
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can you give an example?
/r/askTRP01/07/15 11:53 PM
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good points, thanks
/r/askTRP01/07/15 11:52 PM
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I see your point the only reason i did that was to keep ties incase I see her out again. I feel as though I would have ignored her again she would have not only would say fuck this guy..but spread more rumors around. Now I feel as though I put her in her place and now she will say "ahh he dont give a shit what people say about him that stuff probably isnt true" and I still have that contact for next time I see her..no?
/r/askTRP01/07/15 11:50 PM
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hahah good point
/r/askTRP01/07/15 06:32 PM
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"Every guy has a role to play in "providing the ultimate BF experience" and no SINGLE guy can provide this experience because the experience demands contradictions. EG: "he must treat me like shit and be superior, but also care about my feelings and be sensitive!" Women don't want to have to choose, they want both, hence AF/BB." Great post but I disagree with that part. I have done very well for myself when it comes to women and I am always the one to move on first from a relationship when a wom…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:56 AM
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I agree another thing about these people is they come on and they make smart ass trolly comment to people who are genuinely looking for help. That shit is not RP
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 08:53 PM
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Yes I should have added that in there, thanks
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:38 PM
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If your LT partner is coming with you with a concern to why your relationship is going down hill, responding gay, is a pretty shitty thing. The fact that guys are coming on here asking us how to respond to their LTR questions, means they are missing the point of TRP and something is missing inside. you said its upon every man to find HIS correct answer. I couldnt agree more, thats what this post is about. While I am no where near perfect, My capital usage was to emphasize points, thats why bold/…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:36 PM
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/r/meditation It's like any other acquired skill it takes time, patience, and hard work. A lot of slip ups in the beginning. I do it 10 mins a day and the benefits are substantial
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:40 PM
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/r/meditation It's like any other acquired skill it takes time, patience, and hard work. A lot of slip ups in the beginning. I do it 10 mins a day and the benefits are substantial
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:39 PM
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Honestly I'll probably get down voted for this but TRP isn't known for really good LTR advice. Maybe you're slacking in the relationship on you're part as a man. Found out what she means. You need to still communicate to make a relationship work (if the girl is worth it). It isn't an emotional game. Be a man. Figure out what she's talking about and handle it accordingly I'm sorry but saying "gay" isn't the answer in a long term relationship. We truly need to know more of the context here. But If…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:38 AM
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Im sure it happens to all of us at times. I look back at similar post I put on here and think? wtf was I thinking? You need to keep on the right path and know that there are good days and bad days. shit even sometimes there are bad weeks. Do you meditate? This has helped me huge. After all, this whole RP thing is about knowing and being comfortable with yourself. Once you get that down everything else sort of falls into place. Also dont be so "outcome dependent" enjoy the journey for what it is.…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:30 AM
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IF is the SHIT!
/r/askTRP30/06/15 03:19 AM
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thanks man, so you think letting her go and cutting her out completely is the way to go ?
/r/askTRP27/06/15 06:51 AM
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I did? whats youre problem
/r/askTRP27/06/15 06:37 AM
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makes sense well with my work schedule, I wake up go to the gym, cook then go to work. I get home at 1130 at night and cant never get right to sleep. I usually spend time on the computer, what are some things I can do to improve myself while in monk mode at this time? I want to make sure I am using all the time I have effectivly
/r/askTRP27/06/15 06:31 AM
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not sure what BB and CC are but Eventually Ill want to commit just not right now im still young. and we have so much history together shes also a best friend in a way. The thought of being with someone else is sickening
/r/askTRP27/06/15 06:19 AM
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so on late nights on weekends when everyone is out having fun what do you suggest I do? (serious question)
/r/askTRP27/06/15 06:18 AM
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she knows everything. I have school coming up soon and I am about to enter monk mode..as far as using I am REALLY done. even though its been only 45 days I have a whole new perspective on things and gave my body the chance to see reality for what it is again. I have been tempted to use again and just wont and have no interest..its something I am trying to move on from. as far as her its like I want my cake and eat it too. idk im afraid when I want to settle down shes the one itll be with but for…
/r/askTRP27/06/15 05:51 AM
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Work on yourself, all aspects. Read the side bar and posts. become a better man overall, and most of all become comfortable with yourself. If you love yourself and respect yourself the rest will fall into place. I used to be like you but thats when I hated myself. I would do drugs to run from myself and my feelings, and people treated me in such a way...Its cliche but you need to love yourself before anyone else can love you.. If you dont love yourself, youll always be chasing after poeple who d…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 07:06 AM
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you did the right thing, dont give a shit. A lot of the people that she is talking shit to probably agree with you . Just keep to yourself and brush off the whole situation if its brought up by someone else. In respect to this, make sure YOU are doing your job properly, dont just go around bitching about people not doing there jobs because youre a "big bad alpha who isnt afraid to tell people how it is." You arent there to make friends your there to not only get a paycheck but hopefully provide …
/r/askTRP26/06/15 07:00 AM
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No she did because I saw her after and she said she was pissed because i brought them out to dance and then left.
/r/askTRP21/06/15 05:21 PM
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literally watched that right after I posted this and before I saw what you wrote, weird
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:45 AM
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AWESOME write up man. I never claimed to be a victim. I never went to rehab I knew this was my fuck up and only I could take responsibility and make it better. What are some steps you took at first to really get the ball rolling for you
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 07:15 PM
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But the thing was I never did it in front of them, no body knew actually and especially random girls I would pull from the bar
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 04:54 AM
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But where is the point. Where you don't let it ruin your frame and then respect yourself enough to not let people walk all over you or treat you as a lesser
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 02:52 PM
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Yea let me know how that black eye looks from the sucker punch...seen it happen before.
/r/seduction11/06/15 03:14 PM
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This is the answer I was looking for! THANK you, out of all the wanna be red pillers I always post stuff on here because I know there are a few who truly are RP and want to help others instead of criticize and give smart ass answers..thanks again
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:57 AM
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because I was just being a cool dude, most people would say thanks and be friendly not this bitch...Im just asking how you would handle that you cant tell me even if you hold yourself in the highest SMV that there wont be women who give you shit? we all know that isnt true
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 05:54 AM
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You mean to tell me you don't think there are people who have their own insecurities and problems. And just treat people that way? You're joking right?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 02:46 AM
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I agree that is the best route
/r/askTRP19/03/15 05:30 AM
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Awesome but I disagree with you cant win an argument. I always win arguments with woman with logic, logic wins every time you just need to put it in a way woman can understand.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 05:03 AM
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Na I used to be on drugs and wouldn't care and would fuck literally anything that showed interest unless she was like disgusting/fat. Etc. now I've raised my standards. This happens mostly at work anyway
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:21 AM
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lmao true..
/r/askTRP14/02/15 09:36 PM
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I dont know what this is all about, I get tons of woman, Have a good job, work out, etc. and improve myself everyday..But I also watch porn and master bate a lot..You need to be in control of yourself man
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 09:17 PM
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awesome post man, thank you for taking the time out to write that. I actually woke up today feeling A LOT better. Had a good workout in the gym and got compliments on my size, made me feel on top of the world like when I used. I know this is going to suck bc it does, but i keep telling myself it will all pay off and make me stronger. I dont have time or money to get a therapist. I think it will help but I honestly thing I can pull through this one on my own. How do you keep your journal so its b…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 05:09 AM
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I work in a hospital in an OR.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:11 PM
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Thanks man. Why every 2 days?
/r/askTRP29/01/15 10:24 PM
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Yea it wasnt the money that made me stop..it was everything else it took from me
/r/askTRP29/01/15 05:12 AM
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No...just..No..
/r/askTRP17/12/14 03:50 AM
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I have never been asked this question I usually have escalated or had them interested to where they are offering before I ask or willing to give without question. but I would say this is the best response
/r/askTRP17/12/14 03:49 AM
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jerk off
/r/askTRP10/12/14 02:21 AM
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Wow deep shit man. Love it! thanks for the advice
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:36 AM
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Yes because thats what this sub has turned into...bunch of gamma woman haters who never will be good with woman
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:25 AM
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"Fair enough" Then cut all contact
/r/askTRP08/09/14 11:37 PM
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Nope some woman strong stable level headed woman just won't do it. Especially if their man is good to them. Not beta but good to them. It dnt matter who comes alone they won't do it.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:37 PM
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what type of cool shit are we talking about??
/r/seduction29/07/14 05:24 PM
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also go to youtube and watch all of TylerRSD videos anything you ever need to know are in those videos and hes not even a good looking guy but gets so many woman because he has his shit together
/r/askTRP27/07/14 01:42 AM
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with that attitude probably, but honestly who cares? You shouldnt bc out of 10 girls 9 may laugh but one hot one may think youre fun and care free so she will want you to lead her into the fun. be a leader! show her a good time. that song "girls just want to have fun" was made for a reason because its true. dont take yourself so seriously, go out and have a good time for now
/r/askTRP27/07/14 01:41 AM
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ive seen worst just relax and vibe to the music the more you do it the more you will get better. Its not that youre boring just go out to have fun and not worry so much about the outcome of girls.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 10:13 PM
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Oh man, this is just bad. But the good news is youre at the right place to fix this. From what I can tell you are too much in your head about what you should say, rather than just having fun and being yourself. Treat her like youve know her and show her how fun you are. You are at a bar you should have asked her if she likes to dance, no matter her response, put your hand out and take her to the dance floor. I go out and hook up with woman ALL the time. It has become so easy for me and the best …
/r/askTRP26/07/14 10:02 PM
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dont grab her hips grab the back of her head, tease her and make out with her. you gave her time to think about what she was doing. mess with her get her laughing and just make out with her.
/r/askTRP12/07/14 08:03 AM
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no no she wanted to stay with me, It just wasnt what I wanted
/r/askTRP20/06/14 05:34 PM
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nope, he just does what the fuck he wants without caring what anyone thinks he would laugh at this red pills bullshit, quit going by a theory
/r/askTRP20/06/14 08:22 AM
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truth!
/r/askTRP20/06/14 08:21 AM
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Just be honest, tell her you wont say it until you mean it. Youre not going to say it just to say it. That you care so much about her but you wont lie to her to make her feel better
/r/askTRP19/06/14 11:54 PM
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Ah man sounds exactly like me, Used to be addicted to pills fucked up my relationship. found the red pill and wanted to incorporate it into my relationship and ended up making shit worst because I over thought everything. My advice to you since it was a rocky but successful journey is.. Fuck reading all this nonsense on the red pill. Just keep improving yourself and focus on your relationship all this "weakness" bullshit this sub talks about will just mind fuck you. To make a LTR work you need t…
/r/askTRP19/06/14 11:52 PM
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Dont think about the money, You seem like you are doing really good for yourself so try to find someone who you like and who likes you, regardless of what you make. They dont need to know that especially at first. If she makes as much as you and is what you want cool, if not but she is something you can def see yourself having a future with then regardless of what you or her make it will be enough to support your life style. Just make sure she dont like you just for the money
/r/askTRP19/06/14 11:46 PM
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Take it from a guy who used to get A LOT of woman (in a LTR now) being blue pill isnt a bad thing. The one thing I dislike about this sub is some of its ridiculous beliefs. The key is to be both blue and red, Ive stolen woman of red pill men who will say (well there is plenty of woman out there) no you just dont know how to mix being both red and blue, thats the key.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 11:42 PM
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I have a friend who is not HUGE but is not skinny for sure his nickname is "fatass" he is a 4/5 at most and I see this kid pull 10s constantly. Looks arent number one when it comes to woman, not like they are for most men. As long as you are confident and know how to flirt and dont show neediness being ugly isnt that big of a deal. Now dont get me wrong being very attractive help and being extremely ugly doesnt but you can make it work
/r/askTRP19/06/14 11:39 PM
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Congrats but this seems all forced and not genuine to your true self. You're playing a short term role that over time will bite you In the ass if you ask me
/r/seduction29/04/14 03:38 AM
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This!
/r/seduction18/11/13 10:55 PM
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yea I know that is what I am asking, how or what to do?
/r/seduction27/08/13 10:25 PM
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Slugger. Toots. Sweetheart. Turd.
/r/seduction20/08/13 08:09 AM
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awesome answer thanks for taking the time to write that. you sir are the center of attention NOT an attention whore haha
/r/seduction09/06/13 09:45 PM
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thats just how it works..if the opposite person did that their hand would be facing the camera too
/r/seduction06/06/13 04:18 AM
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Communication. Let he know from the start what it is. most of the time women will be cool with fooling around if not, then go onto someone who is on your same level. That way you can always cover yourself by saying look I told you what I was looking for.
/r/seduction15/04/13 03:31 AM
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buzz killington
/r/seduction19/03/13 12:54 AM
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Until they meet me
/r/seduction18/03/13 04:18 AM
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What's a routine you use at a club or at work?
/r/seduction18/03/13 03:22 AM
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