I've only recently taken the red pill, but I'm finding a lot of power I didn't know I had, and am much happier exercising the power to give myself happiness.

I just had a rant in r/deadbedrooms where someone was solipsistically telling me I can't elevate the importance of sex in my own relationship.

Anyway, in my response I realized that I've recently taken a piece of frame back from my wife that I should have never let go of - the definition of "good wife" is mine alone to define for our marriage.

So, for people going into LTRs, make sure your partner knows that you are the only judge of "good partner" they should listen to.