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[–]1raceAround1268 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Regardless of the woman's reason for not wanting him around, I can guarantee you 100% that she told everyone he was "abusive". Yep, she gave it the ol' "He's completely normal, but when he's alone with me I'm soooo scaaaared..."
I hear things every so often about what my ex has said about me. This is the ex of 10 years, 8 year dead bedroom, I gave up about a year prior to ending it and started just concentrating on myself, hitting the gym like a nut and improving myself. All this before TRP, I just kinda figured this out naturally.
After the breakup, her damage control lost me 100% of my friends and caused me and my Mother to stop talking, haven't talked since February '14.
I hear things. I've heard people mentioned that I was physically abusive (bullshit!), that I was manipulative (I think it relates to one time when she wanted me to go out and get her some chocolate and I said no because I was studying for an exam), that I was a sexual predator (I hadn't had sex in three years before we had broken up... er... predatory? You fucking kidding me?) and of course she was scared to be in my company.
Of course, none of the people she confided in post our break up related this back to me. It was only until a couple of stories she told to people didn't make physical sense for one reason or another. Either they knew I was somewhere else when what she said happened apparently happened, or another story she told which was lifted near word for word from one of her fucking TV programs...
On the plus side, not having any friends left meant I had no ties to cut. The few friends who did reach back out to me, I just said I'm good now and seeing as you showed me what your friendship was worth go fuck yourself. She reached out herself, I guess wanting a free weekend in London. I just ignored every single message.
So, given my experience, I would not be surprised if this guy was in the same situation. Women will just pull out the "he's abusive" card and no matter what, the world and their armies will side with her. Regardless of the truth. For what it's worth, the manipulative one in our relationship was definitely her. As for physical, I seem to recall a good few occasions where she had hit me. I had never retaliated in any way. The only thing I would say is that she destroyed any chance that I would ever trust another woman. Ever again.
I manage a team now which contains three women. I'm at the point where if there's any reason I may be alone with a woman either in the lab or in a machine room, I will leave. I will go and make a coffee or something. You just never know when a seemingly calm and collected woman will just go crazy fucking nut nut and decide you said something or touched her inappropriately or whatever. Regardless of what happened, I could be on the other side of the lab. Frankly, couldn't give a fuck. No giving women excuses to crush your balls.
[–]Redpillthriller24 points25 points26 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Repost.
When she ditched him. Guy should of take the get out of jail free card, made like Casper and disappeared. Now he's spent 10s of thousand just for the "right" to pay her child support LMAO.
Put into that situation I would probably just kill her. If I'm having someone else decide my fate, I'd rather it be a prison warden then some dumb slut living the high life and my offspring.
[–]recon_johnny11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The Man wanted to be a father. Not just a sperm donor and then go about his business.
While this place has no moral judgement, I respect his decisions. I also feel sad for him, but there's a lesson there. More than a few.
[–]Sks446 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He guy sounds like a good man but he's in a no win situation with the bitch he knocked up. You know she's gonna tell those kids what a piece of shit he is at every turn. The court will do everything to keep her in control. He tried to do the right thing and got screwed.
It's sad but he'd been better off walking away.
[–]recon_johnny0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, I agree. At this stage he needs to reassess, and I won't continue to feel sad for him: You continue to do stupid and it's on you.
[–]Primemale9 points10 points11 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This was posted on here a few weeks ago.
I found myself asking when reading this, why the fuck did this man go to all this trouble and severely affect his life in such a negative way. Have some more kids with a better woman. She even gave him the chance of not paying anything, and now he gets financially raped and shitty visitation rights, so it's a lose-lose situation.
[–]StrokeGameHusky0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He was gonna be fucked either way, sooner or later. Should've gotten a paternity test.. The entire time I was waiting for him to say they weren't his kids...
[–]BallisticTherapy4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why people disappear all the time without a trace.
[–]Lt_Muffintoes[🍰] 12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At this point, two to the chest, one to the head actually seems like the most moral solution.
[–]BramRhodesDouglas1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is exactly why mgtow and misogyny exist.
[–]Jewbano3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is why you NEVER date an RN, even just for sex. Those women are fucking crazy. Most of the ones I have met self harm by cutting. If you meet one who doesn't mutilate herself then her demons are literally clawing, raping, and consuming each other's mutilated corpses at the back of her eyes trying to escape her batty goddamn skull.
[–]cogsbrah 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol, my old man said marry a nurse due to their job market and their ability to handle stress.
[–]Jewbano0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
RN's must have changed over the years, because I got the same advice from my Grandfather. I was shocked to learn how wrong he was...Of course, the nurses he knew were in WW2 and the Korean War.
[–]collidoscope6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Cite Sources. Use correct formatting.
Also, this story has already been on this sub.
[–]Sara_Solo2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's from an askreddit thread 3 weeks ago
[–]1oldredder0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
citing sources is inappropriate - most of the time this only ruins a person's life.
If you can't take it as-is you shouldn't be reading reddit at all.
[–]Oversia2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I don't feel sorry for him. The guy is a fool. He chose to spend that money. He chose to fall in love with some idiot woman. He brought all of this on himself. Acting as if this is the only woman that exists and as if its impossible to have other children.
[–]Limekill0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Why the hell would you play her game of trying to be involved when the mother does not want u too... It's a losing game.
He should of left his name off the birth certificate and moved far away (another country), then just send the kids gift vouchers and stuff - instead hes all in their faces playing a losing game with a physco.
[–]LionLaw0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There wouldn't be anything left of her had anyone tried that on me.
[–]mistajaymes0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
how can you have a "great career" while you are literally getting barely an entry level salary
the amount of inconsistencies in this post is ridiculous
[–]boogalooshrimp11030 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I trusted her with the protected sex portion of our relationship
his own damn fault. no sympathy here
[–]Bearhardy0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Fuck! When is it enough? I wonder. To break a mans soul that he just unleash and ends up killing himself or worse others, this is a man that is confused, in a dream state, he is unable to wake up, if he had knew about the current state of affairs regarding this sort of things. If only he knew. What did he do if anything to deserve such hate from this woman and her family I wonder or it is just a tragic comedy just like the aventures of candide.
When he finally get's his daughters assuming they are his they will be spoiled little brats tought by birth to hate on man specially beta man such as her father that despiece being what we could call alpha missed the most important lesson: there is no tursting women only in the fact that they are women.
[–]Limekill0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
The guy was a idiot. It's all about what he wants. I want to cut the cord. I want to be on the birth certificate, I want to pay child support, and now it's I want sympathy because the mother isn't giving me what I want
She NEVER wanted him involved. She's not the one fucking him over - he is. So why should should anyone care about this idiots "crushed soul".
I had a guy like this at my work - it was all about him, and his problems, which were always caused by other people and never through his own shitty actions (read - it was always caused by his own shitty actions).
[–]Bearhardy0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah but you can see that's how he is programmed by society, he has the script of what his life should be and he is not willing to let go, he made all he thinks he should "lift, good job, ltr with a professional and loving woman" and then he is told to gtfo he is not gonna see his kids, just go away? Maybe he should just go but that's not in his brain, he didn't realized how powerless he really was and that he was sold a lie, life shit on him and I will say that his soul is broke and I hope this will make him a better and doesn't totally crush him, maybe he is to old to be unplugged
[–]TekkomanKingz0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This sounds too much to be true...Probably a troll.
[–]Suravira 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He actually posted videos, but it's not sourced and apparently the mods deleted it.
[–]strps0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You've obviously never been to family court.
[–]TekkomanKingz0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean the back story...Why didn't he just walk away? In 2015?
He brought this upon himself entirely - 1st and foremost by choosing the Wrong Woman...Do you know how many Men would be ecstatic to be not listed on the birth certificate? He should have just disappeared without a trace.
[–]TheRedThrowAwayPill-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a repost.
I saw this like 1-2 weeks ago. Got gold and 100's of responses. MASS deletion of that portion of the thread.
(Doesn't mean it's not a true story. he has pics on imgur)
[–]1oldredder-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I guess it hurts to lose your* (ya, the person you're quoting) children but you can go make more babies when you're ready, not surprised.
Bottom line is it's a woman's purpose to make babies of her choosing (when and who the father is) and she did that. She even secured her financing / living situation without child support.
Well... that's what we are born for. Everything else is extra.
When they found out, they would make faces, and stand 2 inches away from me. They would literally take turns sitting right across from me staring at me. I had gotten a lawyer, and was waiting for court to hear my case. I wanted to establish visitation, child support, and custody. Until the courts heard my case, I had to abide by her decisions.
and other nonsense... is HOW YOU GET YOUR BALLS CRUSHED.
All the man's actions after this are fucking retarded. MAKE MORE BABIES WITH ANOTHER WOMAN if you want to look after babies. Let this one go.
Fuck. Men can be so fucking stupid.
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