Summary: A few BP myths that I have fallen to the sword with that I would like to give back to fellow redpillers.

Myth #1: Having a girlfriend will make you happy: This is like RP 101. I had a gf for 5 months. I was never happy. Perhaps we were not the best match, but even so the constant texting, calling, and going out for meals especially with someone you aren’t sure about, just end it. I’ve become happier, healthier and 10 x better. Never fucking settle, even if you never get laid for a year, I swear to god you will be better off.

Myth #2: Going out is the only way to meet women: Since I broke up with my gf, I have been focused on my health and fitness. More so then ever. I’ve hardly been “out” and about. Yet in that time I’ve fucked two girls. One from tinder, the other I just bumped into her in the street and started flirting. Think about how mental it is to spend 4-5 hours in a bar and club every weekend, after a tiring week of work to be in a room with loud music and women who may or may not even like you. My bp brother is the example of this. Amongst his other major faults (out of shape etc, stubborn) he does this every weekend. In fact I joined them out of curiosity and I was bored and drank but felt like shit the next day. I’d rather keep getting stronger and better. There’s plenty of time to horse around.

Myth #3: You got to show off your car, job a little to impress women: I tried this and yes it has worked to a degree but what works more is being fucking aloof. Mysterious, and literally revealing all my faults. My ex gf knew a lot about my work and stuff and tried to milk me dry of my finances by always going out etc. Never ever making that mistake again. Tell women youre a fucking road sweeper. I don’t tell them anything. Incredibly it works in your favour.

Myth #4: Online dating/tinder etc is for losers: Well I’ve fucked 5 girls this year all average or slightly above from tinder. Its bullshit and its easier. I literally put hardly any effort in and I’ve got laid from it. In a time where going out and rolling the dice with the trash in your local bar is hit and miss why not just load up a tinder which is fucking free and get some matches.

Myth #5: Posing topless/abs showing won’t get a girl to like you and appears desperate: I’m currently trying to lower my bodyfat as part of my fitness regime and goal. I put a picture of me flexing my bicep. I’ve never ever got more attention from women in my life. Even guys have been telling me how impressed they are. Morons. Anyway, workout hard, and fucking show off your results. But subtle. Not overboard.

Myth #6: You are not rich enough for a golddigger to be interested in you. I was having a chat with an idiotic relative of mine who was saying how “women who are gold diggers are going after actors, soccer players etc” Bullshit. I’m not loaded, but I have a lot to lose. As all aspiring men. Women will take you for whatever the fuck they can get, which has petrified me at the thought of marriage and put my guard up as two of my older friends are getting fucked in the ass in messy divorces. Its not about how much wealth. You can have $1 or $1billion. Women know they’ve got your balls in a vice when you have all of it to lose.

EDIT: Basic myths I've been hearing last year or so as I try to improve my life.