Where do I stand? How can I improve? What are my strengths/weaknesses? I know I possess many Alpha qualities, yet I'm also painfully aware of Beta tendencies. Let me give you a little background:

(Going to brag a bit, FYI)... I'm now 33, 5'10", 175 lbs. I am younger-looking for my age, have always been relatively fit and athletic. And, I'm told I am above-average attractive. As far as I know, I have slept with more women than any other man my age that I know. (300+ maybe... Idk). I have always come out on top in physical-skirmishes with other men (this does boost status, regardless of what anyone says). Picking up women has always been very easy for me, just like making friends has always been easy. I was popular in school, played sports, was kind of a pot-head rebel, also. So I had that bad-boy thing going for me in a way too...

Now, today, at 33, I have a 17/mo old child. I'm relatively fit, but could definitely tone up. (The "tire" is starting to develop around my waist). My hair-line is slightly-receeding. Worry lines litter my fore-head. Grey hairs are beginning to pop-up. My sex-drive/libido is not what it used to be. (Not sure if this is from low-T or from over-stimulation from porn and many chicks over the years). Also, this has certainly taken it's toll on my confidence/self-esteem levels... The big thing is, I notice I am not noticed by as many women anymore. Yet, I'm also aware that I haven't changed that much physically. I mean, it's not drastic or anything... So, I'm curious if it's my behavior and/or the way I carry myself that is the hang-up. I used to just take for granted that I would be respected by co-workers, friends, etc. But I'm slowly realizing I have to put in effort to maintain this "frame" today. (Definitely looking for pointers on how to command more respect at work, also. High-end auto-sales).

In dating/relationships, like many men, I'm a goddamn alpha role-model for men, when I'm with women I don't really give two-fucks about. However, I have put hot-chicks on pedestals in the past and am learning why those relationships failed, slowly but surely. I realize I need the same attitude I have with 6s and 7s, when I'm with the 8s and 9s. But it doesn't seem to flow as naturally. It's like I truly am intimidated by these bitches.

Where am I fucking up, gentlemen? Ask me questions... Probe... Whatever. Help make me into the embodiment of a TRP bad-ass. I will return the favor once I achieve mastery!

EDIT: And this is a biggie... I've always been able to pull very hot women into relationships, yet fail to keep them around. Why? I know I've fucked up by putting them on pedestals. But what are some other common fuck-ups I should be watching out for?