19 riding the CC hard and fast, has no idea how to actually engage in a relationship.

oh_no_aliens · 2018-07-04T23:26:51+00:00

I never really have had a serious relationship, but have had plenty of dating experience.

BWAHAHAHA! I have plenty of experience being entertained and chased by men to whom I mostly say "no" but sometimes say "yes".

That's not dating experience darling. That's just being pampered and living life on easy mode.

TitySuker · 2018-07-04T23:34:39+00:00

This whole "scared of a relationship" thing is laughable when women say it.

You're not scared of a relationship. You just currently have many options that you're scared of missing out on what's "right around the corner".

Show me a 40+ year old woman that haven't been in a relationship for 3 years that's this cute intimacy phobe that Rom-coms champion in real life.

PM_ME_UR_NAKED_TITS · 2018-07-05T09:31:50+00:00

imagine already being such a disgusting thot at the age of 19

toysjoe · 2018-07-05T03:24:55+00:00

Kinda sad that hoe-ing it up is the default way of being and she has to prepare herself to be ready for long term relationships

ClockworkOrange92618 · 2018-07-05T14:08:49+00:00

"Why do I [19, F] always sabotage any chance at a relationship?"

Ride the ponies harder!

It's because you don't really want one. You should just admit this to yourself and take another ride on the merry go round.

I have had plenty of dating experience.

Translation: I have had plenty of cock run through me. I know how to find guys to fuck, but I don't know how to relate to any of them outside of sex.

I know how to use sex to manipulate men, and I know how to avoid getting manipulated (kind of, sometimes), but I don't really know how to do the give and take necessary for a real relationship with an actual human being and not just a life support system for a human dildo.

Whenever I find myself getting close to someone, I quickly retreat back to safety because of the "unknown" and the vulnerability that comes with a relationship.

Translation: I am afraid. I am afraid of being known. I am afraid he'll ask me about my past. I am afraid he will judge me, and then reject me.

I am afraid I will have to pass up bigger better cock. I am afraid I will have to compromise. I am afraid I will have to give up certain things.

In the comments:

He's an attorney so he is building up his business and I'm a student.

She's dating a guy at least 6 or 7 years her senior, who has some money in the bank. To a 26 or 27 year old guy out in the world working, a 19 year old girl is a toy to play with. Nothing serious is ever going to come of this. No man that age who's worth a shit is ever going to take her seriously. She's a plaything he takes off the shelf when he feels like it, he dumps a fuck in her, and he goes home or sends her home.

Honey - you want a relationship, find some 21 year old senior at your college who will actually do some give and take with you. And learn how to give yourself. Get some therapy so you work through your issues. Actually, you don't need any therapy; just read and learn and internalize what I wrote up there - you are AFRAID. Accept it. Face it. Deal with it. And then move on from there.

SirKolbath · 2018-07-05T15:37:43+00:00

Keep reading, it gets really funny in the comments when she explains that she's a 19 year old student and he's a practicing attorney.

We know exactly why she's with him and why he's with her. It is the oldest profession, in fact.

Wolfoflulzstreet · 2018-07-05T17:42:12+00:00

“but have had plenty of dating experience... whenever I find myself getting close to someone, I quickly retreat back to safety because of the "unknown" and the vulnerability that comes with a relationship.”

So the unknown quantity of strange cock is perfectly safe. She also mentions that she’s a student and her current check book is an attorney and states that she loves being independent.

My god the cringe.

Title	19 riding the CC hard and fast, has no idea how to actually engage in a relationship.
Author	sleepyweaselisawake
Upvotes	51
Comments	19
Date	July 4, 2018 8:45 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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