She keeps trying nothing and nothing works.

ImportantScar · 2018-03-11T17:54:30+00:00

I've seen no less than a thousand profiles and literally only one made me excited for the date (and that one turned out to be a convicted child molester, so you can understand why I said no to a second date).

I'm confused. Whenever some woman complains that her husband is upset that he just found out that she pulled a six-man train at a frat party, has had more three-ways than a porn star, and spent her 20's running up a notch count in the triple digits, the response is always, "He's a douche-bag! Your past sexual history is none of his business!" or "It's in the past. You're a different person now and he just needs to get over it!"

JStheHammer · 2018-03-11T16:35:13+00:00

And she is 21. Wait until 30

LawyerInTheMaking · 2018-03-11T19:34:53+00:00

oh my lord, one of the comments starts with this:

You are so beautiful and sweet and I can (partly) relate to your posts so well! I definitely don't understand how you wouldn't get asked out IRL. One would think guys would be all over you.

this is why girls think they are more attractive then they actually are. like no, shes regular looking. comments like that are why girls think they are entitled to Chads.

ameoba · 2018-03-11T17:09:20+00:00

She was right about that post history. Definitely paints a picture of somebody I'd be frightened away from.

loneliness-inc · 2018-03-11T20:01:17+00:00

Translation - dating and the subsequent relationship is a chore for me. I don't really want to do anything for my future man, I don't even want to put any effort into finding him. He's the one who needs to do all the doing, including finding me and pursuing me and establishing the relationship.

However, I can't just come out and say that because I'll look incredibly lazy. Truth is, that I am incredibly lazy, but I can't face that part of myself and I certainly can't have you face that so I'll just make up or exaggerate some sad online dating experiences to justify why I'm not interested in getting off my lazy ass to find someone.

Now that I've attached some descriptive words to my online dating experience, words such as degrading and shallow, now I can finally take the moral high ground and come across as the poor righteous traditional ladylike lady who's a damsel in distress and needs a good strong man to come and sweep me off my feet because I deserve it.

Everything has a positive though and this too is for the best. It may sound like bitching but it's really a ploy for me to get my fix of attention for today.

I won't say thank you though because I deserve this attention.

Incel4Life · 2018-03-11T19:40:55+00:00

And that gives me that irrational "I'm gonna die alone" kind of anxiety that I think most of the posters on this sub have experienced at one point or another.

It's not irrational - it's a very legitimate fear for today's women to have. For finding "the one", millennial women refuse to settle for anything less than a Chad, and so a large percentage of millennial women are going to reach menopause childless and alone.

[deleted] · 2018-03-11T19:02:21+00:00

"In and out of psychotherapy" for 7 years? That might explain something.

stringedbeams · 2018-03-12T22:00:24+00:00

I have no sympathy for these girls, I have probably swiped on them, if they decline the date offer, there is nothing more I can do besides the improvement I am already working on on myself

Xoramung · 2018-03-13T00:02:48+00:00

...I just don't find myself opening the apps a lot. It feels like a chore, and has felt like a chore since...

Avoid all women who do not accept the chores. or chads.

[deleted] · 2018-03-12T22:57:19+00:00

Sounds like she knows how to take flattering photos of herself but IRL isn't all that attractive.

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