TL;DR: Girl is really into me. I fucked up when encountering LMR by loosing frame and acting hurt and friendzoned myself.

I am 24 kissless virgin who has really bad anxiety around women.

I know this girl is really into me because she was the one who asked me for my number, she asked me out first onto our first date and has asked me out 3 times more afterwards (dinner, bar and cooking at my place). She initiated locking arms with me once and also initiated holding hands once. While we have a great time hanging out (I am good at negging her and joking and keeping the conversation flowing), this has been going on for 3 months because I have been too much of a pussy but improving. I went from just talking to her, to being more flirty and touchy (to which she never had objections) and after 2 months, finally having the balls myself to ask her out for ice skating.

2 weeks ago, she asked me if we can cook at my home. After we finished eating, we started to dance (we are both blues dancers). She kept getting closer and closer to me until we basically did vertical cuddling. I got too nervous and in the middle of the song said we should try to dance something else because I am too tall and keep hitting her chin with my shoulder. We danced some more until she left.

Last week I asked, if she likes to come over and cook again to which she agreed.

After cooking we danced again. This time the same thing, we dance some songs and with each songs she gets closer and closer to me until we are vertically cuddling.

This time, I danced till the end and when the song ended, I finally got the balls to go for the kiss. But when I looked into her eyes she firmly said "No".

I messed up because I was visibly hurt by this and with a shaken voice asked "..No..?". She then said "Come here" and hugged me for a minute. Afterwards, instead of just staying cool, I fucked up even more by asking her, still with a shaken voice ".. What..do..you..want..from..me?" to which she said "I am just a very touchy feely person" (which I know is not true and just said to remain plausible deniability). And then I said: "..So are we just friends?" and she said: "Yeah, if you don't mind?". She then left but before leaving said "So, see you in 2 weeks then (she is going on vacation)".

I know I fucked up massively, but seeing how this girl after 3 months of me not doing anything besides asking her out twice, was still into me to the point she asked herself to come to my place and her being more of a nerdy and intelligent type of women (also never had a boyfriend and doesn't have social media, doesn't drink or goes partying), is there a chance to turn this around? If so, how?