A girl who flaked on me twice is asking to meet again after I applied some dread. Should I go or just say I am busy ?

3gm22 · 2020-03-06T05:13:27+00:00

If she flaked twice, she doesnt regard or respect you like you deserve. I would never date a person who breaks a promise, even if just to meet for coffee.

Next her, and find a cuter, more respectful woman.

Good luck bro

binrobinro · 2020-03-06T05:38:49+00:00

I never give a third chance.

xX_bullitt_Xx · 2020-03-06T09:51:39+00:00

Are you available and interested? Don't change plans for her, but go if you feel like it. Just know that she doesn't respect you right now. That doesn't mean you can't plate her.

The1ndex · 2020-03-06T05:22:30+00:00

The definition of flaked is a bit subjective.

If you want to go, go ahead.

Whatever you do, don’t say you’re busy as a form of manipulation. Either meet her, or hard next her.

2020-03-06T05:59:02+00:00

Nah, she just looking for some attention tbh. Focus on yourself king

AloofusMaximus · 2020-03-06T15:44:20+00:00

Tell her that your time is valuable, if she wants to meet you she can come to your house.

It's pretty unlikely to happen, but you're really not losing anything by trying.

HurricaneHugues · 2020-03-06T22:14:07+00:00

What dread did you apply? Lol she wasn't fucking interested in the first place. All you did was pout, and now she's feeding you crumbs to bring you back in orbit. Just move on. Delete her number and text thread. Find you some girls who will swim oceans to hang with you

frognads · 2020-03-06T07:58:39+00:00

Don't bother.

cheickgot · 2020-03-06T10:55:15+00:00

Bro accept it like an alpha and flake her you gotta be cool about it

George_Wallace_1968 · 2020-03-06T14:11:35+00:00

RedSkeller · 2020-03-06T19:04:00+00:00

3 strikes she's out. I stop after 2. Likely she's just pinging you for validation. Hit her with straight logistics and expect her to flake.

QuinlanBothese · 2020-03-06T09:21:09+00:00

Tell Her she is a stupid fickle bitch and that she can fuck off. Others guys will tell you : " Be stoic, be calm just next her. " , yes just accept the disrespect. Accept everything cuz you must Be Stoic. Do what you feel like doing. I would tell her that she is a trailer trash imbecile and that she should find another person to jerk around.

Title	A girl who flaked on me twice is asking to meet again after I applied some dread. Should I go or just say I am busy ?
Author	viral0998
Upvotes	4
Comments	22
Date	March 6, 2020 5:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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