Was with a girl, alone, in her room, parents out...did not escalate because I'm scared (?)

Accendino69 · 2020-03-10T14:28:20+00:00

Short answer: No porn and no fap from 3 to 6 months.

Long answer: I don't wanna go into details but something similar happened to me too, multiple times ( not the kissing part, I'm always down for hours-long makeout sessions ). I just didn't want to have sex. And I did not regret it, the same as you. No fap and No porn fixed it after around 3 months.

Still, don't feel forced to have sex because TRP told you. Do it when you feel ready and with a girl you like and you're comfortable with, otherwise you'll end up with a limp dick, speaking from experience lol.

You don't go form kissless virgin to uber mega chad fucking 4 women at the same time only from reading TRP, you need to actually experience stuff gradually.

redhawkes · 2020-03-10T13:32:50+00:00

Use this experience as a reminder that rejection is always better than regret.

You've hit the jackpot for finding this place at 16, so, when in doubt, escalate.

throwawayaftertoday4 · 2020-03-10T13:38:53+00:00

Nofap, no porn

ev214 · 2020-03-10T13:41:04+00:00

Use this as a learning experience and don’t let it happen again. We cannot learn if we do not make mistakes. The only reason I found red pill mentality was because I made mistakes only simps would make on dates with girls. Work on your self improvement and enjoy the journey.

DrJamming · 2020-03-10T14:57:13+00:00

You're were right to not act. She only smiled, took you for a walk and then to her house emphesising no one is there.

If she relly wanted to go for it she would throw rape pill into your drink, tie you to bed, and then proceeded to do the deed.

Women these days really don't know how to give a man a clue!

nexther · 2020-03-10T19:43:23+00:00

You just do it. If you want something bad enough, you’ll do it. I was with a girl recently, we had been flirting... took it back to her room. I sat next to her, looked her in the eyes, grabbed her hair and kissed her. Then I pulled myself away and said “stand up.” “Bend over.” I bent her onto my knee and spanked her. Then I undressed her to her panties and bra. Then I made her sit on my lap, facing me while we kissed letting her grind on my dick. Then I threw her onto the bed, tied up her wrists above her head, blind folded her, then thrusted her.

mrpoopistan · 2020-03-10T22:50:18+00:00

In light of your age and the stated progress you've made over a short span, I'm not inclined to bust your balls much here.

Keep making progress at your pace.

Lots of young people have reservations about their first time, and some folks will have reservations about their second time because they need to process their first time.

The big thing is to keep working on you physically, academically and socially. Don't ideate about what you didn't do. Get up tomorrow and think about what you can do.

collegeguy115 · 2020-03-10T17:53:23+00:00

Kino

Jessor69 · 2020-03-10T21:32:53+00:00

You realised you fucked up, and now you know what to do in the next encounter.

We learn from our mistakes but don't fuck it up twice

At your age the girls are maybe inexperienced as well, so you gotta lead the interaction. Just pretend you know what you're doing

6paths_luds · 2020-03-11T00:25:43+00:00

Bruh the same thing happened to me, except that it was my house, so I got cockblocked by my own mom. Just think that you did the right shit to get into this situation and logistics were bad, but it's alright bcoz you're a virgin and you didn't want to have some stressful quickie. Just don't dwell on it: try again with the same girl and approach new ones

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2020-03-10T16:36:36+00:00

the title says it all, you are a retard

ChadBreeder1 · 2020-03-10T20:22:36+00:00

“Something I’ve dreamed of since I was 12”. Lol.

Title	Was with a girl, alone, in her room, parents out...did not escalate because I'm scared (?)
Author	Red_Forever
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	March 10, 2020 1:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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